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my sister wannan hali ya zama ruwan dare mu dai fatan mu Allah ya sa masu halin su gyara

Walahi it's very annoying, wats this world turning into jst betrayal

Well, sister. This behaviour is quite common now and is actually a lesser evil compared to some major issues in dating in Nigeria. To live according to your times, You have to be wise and learn how to separate the chaff from the grains so to speak. Here are some suggestions: 1. Don't Emotionally invest too much in any relationship too early. 2. Don't continue to relate with people who thru words and/or action have shown you that they have a different plan than your own e.g he doesnt mention marriage or settling down ever. All he does is empty talk da dadin baki. 3. Make your intention clear and be bold enough to ask the person point blank if he is getting married soon or if he is interested in marriage at the moment WITH TACT! and so on!

I wish you the best!

Ameen thanks