Am i cursed?

Allah sarki so sorry this is heartbreaking Insha Allah you will find someone better I think you should start with friendship from then you will move to relationship but I always says that date who love you no matter what to avoid feeling hurt cos who loves you won’t treat you bad for long

Allah ya baka mafita malam

You just have to brace yourself up cause compassion fatigue and having to struggle with bad memories of the past is really hard for one to handle BUT here is a thing for you take all of the incidences as god's plan which is neither too late nor early. Similarly,god might be preparing somebody better for you so do well in reciprocating their love....May Allah make it easy for us all.

Can we talk? I'm a lady Contact me on au199527@gmail.com Not really about love or any ships, just a heartfelt conversation, I believe I make a good confidant

Honestly speaking, sometimes we feel love is not meant for us, we don’t want to give chances to others, we ignored the love, the care, I have been in the same shoes with you, I was betrayed by my boyfriend,someone I planned my future with, someone I trust with all my heart, I was loyal dating only him but it caused me nothing but pain, Alhamdullilah na kare mutunci Kai na, it was a long distance relationship, I strictly respect boundaries. I took break from love for the past five years, ina son kare mutuncin kaina da taimkon Allah, i want Allah to bring someone that will love and respect me, I trust his plans,I don’t want to fall a victim, this is not easy, continue praying, leave everything to Allah in sha Allah he will handle everything in the right time, believe his plan are better than yours, he will bring someone that will bring the kind of love you need in your life,nothing is permanent. I don’t know you or how much you carry but reading your message really made me understood how you feel because I was once in your shoes, but at the end I gave up in love because I am afraid of it.. I turn to Allah and that’s how I feel peace of mind trusting his plans. I promise you everything will be okay in the end in sha Allah. keep trying and praying, you are not cursed and don’t believe that sometimes it is just a test. Sometimes I feel like maybe if I could meet someone that was heartbroken before he will understand the pain caused by betrayal maybe he will love me differently but maybe I am wrong so we all have painful memories and thats not the end! Live your life with full happiness, engage yourself in reading Quran, a lot of istighifar, your peace of mind should matters to you,Wlh I promise everything will change In your way. May Allah make it easy for you! Allah ya zaba mana abun da yake Alkhairi.

sorry the message i wrote was long but I want to at least say something that will make you feel good and believe giving up is not an option in sha Allah you will be okay. if you really want to, I will help you with some advices and du’as that will help you in sha Allah.

To be honest... I don't know whether to say Ameen to that prayer or not. Nothing excites me about relationship or marriage. It's not about the people I've been in a relationship, honestly they're good people and i feel really bad that i can't return the love they have for me. I've tried to make things work ... I've really tired but it's not just working for me. xAuthorx

Hmm Ameen.

Hmm what's the point of someone better coming and I'm not able to love her the way she wants? What if I'm the problem? Sorry if I'm being too pessimistic here but to be honest if a 1000 girls were to line up in front of me wanting to ask me out, i will feel zero excitement. Maybe this a phase, hopefully. Ameen Ameen may He make it easy for us all -Author

Alright -author

Smiles... No i don't mind, i read every word of it and thank you ☺️. I was heartbroken several years back and I've moved on but at a price... I'm capable of love, but the one i love doesn't understand me, we don't match on an emotional level and the one who understands me I struggled to love her the way that she deserves. Maybe I'm the problem because they're good people. These 2 are the only ones i had something concrete with, I've had to opt out of several talking stages because i feel i can't fully commit to loving them as they would with me. If you ask my honest opinion about love relationship and marriage. It's stress which i can do without. Sad thing for a man to admit to himself but this is true. I feel more at peace going to bed knowing I'm not emotionally entangled to any. Is this what you feel? -author

It seems like you gave up on everything about love, and that's the pain caused by betrayal because you are afraid and not willing to give love again because you picture this is not true, you don't trust anymore, giving up is not an option, like i told I was once in your shoes, I felt everyone around me is lying or they love because of something, I choose to be single and the peace that comes with it but we can't continue like that right? so praying is the best way out... If you don't mind I have somethings to tell you,can you drop where I can contact you? but if you don't mind please. Thank you

Alright here's my Gmail Kk2020max@gmail.com

okay Thank you I have sent you a mail.

fatan alkhairi