WTF is wrong with some girls?

I once fell in love back in my matric school days. What started as a pure connection slowly grew into something deeper — plans, dreams, and a shared vision for the future. But life had other ideas. Her mother carried a bad impression toward people with my name — Abubakar. I saw the storm coming and braced myself for the inevitable. And just like that, our love sank beneath the weight of prejudice. After that, I made a vow — to never let my heart fall again. I told myself I’d friendzone any girl who tried to get close, just to avoid feeling that kind of pain again. But hearts don’t always obey vows. Then came another girl. She was different — or so I thought. Our relationship was distant but steady, built on calls and messages. I didn’t mind doing most of the reaching out. But one day, she told me how she entertained a “brother in deen,” and even shared with him things that were private between us — our intimacy, our bond. That revelation hit hard. It wasn’t about jealousy; it was about trust. After that, things fell apart. She changed, and I started to wonder — what is it with some girls? Why is it that when a man shows honesty, loyalty, and care, it’s often mistaken for weakness? Do girls truly value the good guys — or do they only learn their worth after being hurt by the ones who never cared?