my correct boyfriend is just 24 while I am 21, he love me so much and I love him too, he is 24 but he act 30s he is very matured honestly, he is working and receiving good salary, he spend for me as well but my problem now is that he want us to marry soon and I am feeling like he is very young to marry gaskiya and I don't want to loose him
                
            
                sae ki fada masa kice gaskiya kina ganin kamar be isa aure ba , ya dan jira ya kara girma
ya miki yaro a yanxu                
            
                it's better you agree and get marry soon since you love him, and you even said he's very matured, if not Kuma xakiji ankai tambaya wani gida, infact wajen yarinyar dataga bae Mata yaroba                
            
                U said he is mature bah, biko since you love him agree, if not am not wishing bad for you will regret it. 
But apart from yayi yaro akwai wanni matsalane? If not please don't lose him                
            
                If there is no problem apart from his age, you should go ahead.                
            
                so u mean his age is normal and he can marry?                
            
                Age is not a problem, Iāve seen 20yrs got married and 8yrs now their marriage is fine Alhamdulillah, and then seen a 35+ Man marry and he couldnāt keep his home just after a year and vice versa. Lots of more important things to be considered and age isnāt one (as long as both of them are adults and both consented to the marriage). I myself prefer marrying my age mate or someone older than me with a year or two. Age doesnāt define marriage, we got important stuffs like parenting, deen, financial compatibility, shared interests, ways of resoluting conflicts whenever it arises in the marriage, shared responsibilities, family values, emotional support, trust, intimacy and long term visions of both couples, this are what should be an intending couples priority not age.                
            
                Ai mace na fadamin haka mun rabu kenan                
            
                this is nice honestly                
            
                Please make due checks and all, if you guys are good to go, Go live your life full of albarka afterall you said the guy acts matured which normally a 24yrs should be. And reach all necessary agreements with him before you both get committed into marriage.                
            
                I just don't want to loose him honestly and she is the only thing that is kind of discouraging me from marrying him, he always encourages me do Monday and Thursday fasting and when ever I complain to him about anything disturbing me he will advise me to keep up to my dua's, like he really do encourage me about deen and that is the kind of partner I have been praying for                
            
                thank u very muchšš»                
            
                Youāre welcome, all the best in your endeavors.                
            
                to ai abinda ke ranta kenan                
            
                Gsky fa kawai ta fito fili ta Fadi mai                
            
                tell him to go and look for another girl while you go and look for an elder, don't stress us pls                
            
                kawai mallama zancen gsky kinajin zaki yaudareshi ne lkcn da yake kashe miki kudi da kulawa duk bakigane yaro bane saida yazo da maganar aure Kuma kikace dabi,unsa irin na manya Amma duk da haka bai tsira b                
            
                š
kamar kinji haushin maganar                
            
                exactly                
            
                hhhhh abin haushi ne mana
face yana d hankali sosai , he is ready to get married, suna son junan su sosai, yasan ya kamata, toh me kuma take nema da zata ys mata yaro?
ai ba shekaaru ne kesa hankali ba                
            
                shine ai
wai yaro
sae d sukagama shan soyayyar tasu taci kudinsa sannan ta gane yaro ne                
            
                Marriage is not all about age 
It is about getting the best partner
Thank Allah you've gotten a good partner and keep praying then In Sha Allah nothing will happen
They are some people that are 30 or 35 but act irresponsible so if he is responsible and ready for marriage then Alhamdullilah
Just keep praying and you guys will leave a happy and successful life āŗļø                
            
                toh fa, in ma yaron ne ba zai girma ba kenan. Manzon Allah ya auri wanda ta girme shi kuma sun zauna lafiya. Kawai wata qila ba son shi da gaske take ba                
            
                Hahaha š¤£šš wlh ya funny wai taci kudinsa 
yayi adashi ba kwasa ba lada ba zunubi                
            
                hmmmm ...better agree ohh if you really love each other if not you will end up regerting ur actions seriously                
            
                if he is responsible and matured u can marry him pls                
            
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