Assalamu alaikum good evening pls I need advice from you and yan aji
A marriage proposal came to my dad seeking for my hand in marriage but I have a boyfriend even though the boyfriend isn't ready to marry me even in the next 2year to come🥲 I'm 24 years old I love my boyfriend I really do but I don't know what to do, my father didn't tell me he asked my mother if I'm seeing someone and she told him "yes" but the problem here is if I'll tell my dad that my current bf isn't ready to marry me he'll get really furious Bcox
my dad isn't the type that force his children into something they don't want to especially important things like marriage but what he hates the most is rejecting marriage proposals. I don't know what to do I don't want to disappoint my father by telling him my bf isn't ready to marry me.
what should I do pls🥲💔
what do u mean by good proposal?
Tell your current boyfriend that someone has reached out to your parent seeking for your hand in marriage. What's his plan? And ok the other hand if ur dad talk to you, u can say that since you don't know him u can't say u love him or want to marry him. but a bashi dama mu fahimci juna 1st...
Okay, I'll do that insha Allah
thank you
My dear I don't care about whatever anybody has to tell u or however anyone sees my comment but I'm going to tell u to give that proposal an audience if at all it is as good as you claim it to be... Your boyfriend is only looking at you as a girlfriend but not a potential and no I'm not saying you should leave someone you love but jst weigh the options: is your boyfriend going to marry you after spending a few more years waiting for him with the probability that he might later fall out of love or even find someone he feels is more befitting of him than you? thats if he later doesn't show up with an excuse of his parents engaging someone on his behalf or would you rather try out your father's proposal?
see one thing I so much believe is that people don't come our way jst like that but Allah has destined for them to come and play their parts in our lives... you're 24 so you're no longer a child and I believe you know what you want but don't forget to weigh the options too..
if I were you I would try and give the " good proposal" a chance while praying for the best and see where it leads to.. I for one would have preferred someone seeking my hand in marriage from my father because my father was a good man and i believe he would choose only the best for me, unfortunately he's no more....
Best wishes
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