Is It Bad ?
Relationship
Anonymous Jan 7, 10:32 PM

Is It Bad ? 1

there Is This Thing am Not Comfortable about But am Just Doing It To Save My Self And The Other person.... Most Ladies i Come across Show Interest In me And When I Noticed. I Do my Best To Avoid & Stop Them By Showing Them I Have Another person Even If I Don't. And From Then They Will Start Behaving As If They Hate me... This happened Ryt from my Secondary School days. So From Then I Try To Avoid talking to ladies i Know I Am Not Interested In...its not like ina Kin Answa Musu but bana Yarda in Sake Ne Dasu...... But People Around me Says that am Being Rude... Am I wrong please ?
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Haidar Ali Jan 7, 10:45 PM
Su fa mutane ba a iya musu. Idan da kana amince ma duk wata mace da ta nuna interest a kan ka sai ace ka fiye tara yan mata, ace mayaudari don an san ba auren dukan su zaka yi ba. The people around you probably say what they say cos they know you're not into any relationship. And girls behaving as if they hate you is as a result of the rejection, sun ji ba daΙ—i ne.
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Khadeejert Jan 7, 10:54 PM
ur approach matters, huncle if u aren't interested in a particular kind of communication eida with d person or probably d topic dia is a more polite way to turn it down or avoid it bt den since pple tend to tell you that u re been rude, u compromise a lil bit nd see how it goes. be a friendship material e get Y πŸ˜‰πŸ˜‰ been nyc will go a long way. ya welcome πŸ€—
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Anonymous Jan 7, 11:01 PM

i Wish I Can Tell You More About the Story. Then You Will Understand.. Ai Ba Daga Min Magana Nake Haka Ba... In Yarinya Ta Fara Shishige min ne Nake Hakan ....Kwai Am Avoiding Long Conversation and Closeness. And Some Of There Request That Will Lead To Something Else
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Khadeejert Jan 7, 11:08 PM

sometimes u neva know wat is at stake till u try, u can still tell d complete story if u want to nd i believe it is not as bad as it looks or sound. though sometimes ladies can be dat annoying creature, shishige sometimes mean i care abt u nd really want it to be u, it might be i like u, it might be m after ur kayan pocket bt den u might find ur answer if u nd d oda party re transparent with each other 🌚 #doyouwanttotalkaboutit?
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Zahrau haladu Jan 7, 11:22 PM
Abeg rayuwanan fa idan ka biyema mutane da abunda suke fada wallah zasu kai ka kabari lokacin ka bai yi ba da yanzu Kuma yan mata kake Tarawa Shima sai sunyi magana kai wani ma zai kalle ka ya ce maka Dan iska so kawai kayi abun da ya dace shine kawai Allah ma da ya hallaci mutum baya iya masa balle kai so kawai amsa zaka nema da ya dace da abunda suke fada kai ma kana gaya masu sai a zauna lfy ahhh don't mind them de feel bad that's why
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Khadeejert Jan 7, 11:26 PM

πŸ€”πŸ€”πŸ€” suggestion pls how on dis planet do u want to tell me d story huncle ama fa kada ka ce ni ma ina shishige🀭🀭
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Khadeejert Jan 7, 11:37 PM

mai sunnan mummy, u hve spoken bt need i remind u dat sometimes some ladies tend to think "ok I'd rada swallow my pride nd once i do dis ill get dis person " πŸ™„ bt den idan suka tashi nasu, sai su yi over though it's annoying ama fa sai mutum ya dana kirgi. idan kuma baa dana kirgi ba ai babu zaman lpy ko ya kika gani. nd dat is Y i said d approch matter, its not bad fr him to tell em his mind, bt d way he shows dem might be d reason Y dey say he is rude
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Khadeejert Jan 7, 11:46 PM

😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 anonymous uncle, comman undo wat u hve done here ooooooooo ga mamata ta ce ina shishige
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Anonymous #1 Jan 8, 12:29 AM
no
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Rukaiya Muhammad Jan 8, 07:53 AM
I think that's your kind of personality. kuma trying to avoid what you think is not right saboda kayi maganar shisshigi and this shisshgi can be of different type gaskiya so banga laifinkaba.theres a saying Mata dangin shedan,wasu mata can go extreme to achieve there desires. makesure you calm and choose wisely but I respect your kind of personality gaskiya.Allah ya tsare mana imani.
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Anonymous Jan 8, 08:52 AM

Ameen Thumma Ameen. Am Glad I Post This Here, Wallahi Har na Fara Tunanin What Am Doing is Wrong. But Alhamdulillah Thank You All
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