I am really bothered about these situation,I don't know if am the only one facing these,but when ever someone asked me out and we started talking, when he asked me were am from the moment I say Niger State he will start giving new attitude and becomes distance 😠why, mostly, Kano, kaduna and other arewa state.
                
            
                am also from Niger state so do you want us to connect                
            
                I don't think it's for everyone it just depends, but we're not all the same                
            
                aah I'm from Niger state too
although I haven't experienced such yet besides Niger state is a solid part of the North                
            
                yes it is but maybe it's from me ooo🥺                
            
                okay then                
            
                well 
I don't know oo but mostly if am ask from were and I say Niger they will be like Kai gaskiya Kuna da nisa da mu                
            
                okay na                
            
                but gaskiya fa it's not normal, I'm from Nigeria if I want to get marriage here in Europe I will never expect to meet someone from niger kano or Nigeria in general I should just focus on understanding and the amount of love, the thing is it's all about love for me,if I'm compatible with you then nothing  like where are you from, we are all the same thing, just love matter trust me                
            
                so sorry sister,am also from Niger state and a nupe lady  but have never experienced that before gaskiya.dont worry everything is time                
            
                perhaps you've not met the right one yet. I have a very close friend of mine his wish is to marry a Nupe girl. I've heard a couple of people say nice things about Nupe girls. i don't know if they only say that to my face cos I'm just mentioning to them I'm Nupe too. cos most don't know I'm Nupe unless I say it.                
            
                why not                
            
                well
am from niger but not nupe.nupe's are nice no denial                
            
                well I guess it's your own view,
I am just sharing my experience,I have met like three people lately and the out come is all the same that the place is far                
            
                you see that's the fact, it's just about time                
            
                Oh my bad for concluding you're one.
None the less, I believe the right one will present himself @ the right time. You just do you and Let He whose hands all affairs are handle your affairs.                
            
                Insha Allah                
            
                it's not just my point of view but it was the fact, {{garin masoyi baya nisa}} if you don't speak hausa ask your hausa friends, they will immediately translate it to you!!                
            
                tabbas garin masoyi baya nisa
it's seems I am the only experiencing these,                
            
                well, sorry to say but am not talking about Niger guys, mazan Niger suma suna da nasu to be honest let's State the fact most nupe only marry nupe like them.                
            
                drop a ur contact in dis mail mmohdmohammed@gmail.com                
            
                Allah yamiki albarka, wannan gaskiya ne soyayya daya ce                
            
                done                
            
                done                
            
                Yes, most Nupe people only marry Nupe people although I'm not saying it's the best thing but I feel it is of advantage many atimes because I'm Nupe too and preferably I will opt for a Nupe guy if possible 🤷, you know no matter how hard we try to deny it, you do not want to go into a marriage where one can hardly speak their language, not used to their ways of life, cultures and traditions, and maybe wen they have a particular belief abt ur tribe etc. you will see that you wouldn't be fully accepted but you see with your tribal person there's always this sense of belonging 🤷, ofcourse I'm not saying it's a bad thing but sincerely wats working for an individual may not jst work for another                
            
                ameen ya Allah                
            
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