How can I get rid of sexual feelings
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Anonymous Jul 19, 10:57 AM

How can I get rid of sexual feelings 0

I am a male, mid 30s not married and quiet doing fine. I thank God for having a lot of my life together but I am getting bothered from sexual feeling that are distracting me and making me do things that i usually wouldn't do. I am sick of it and tired. I am really sick of it and i wish to get rid of it permanently. Any suggestions please. Thanks.
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Masha Allah Jul 19, 11:26 AM
Fasting
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Anon 123 Jul 19, 12:05 PM
chaste tea from alchemy of souls😂 abeg get married
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Muhammad Musa Muhammad Jul 19, 12:38 PM
Yes that's means ur system is reliable and functioning very well🤣malam kayi aure kawai shi ne magana
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Muhammad Musa Muhammad Jul 19, 12:38 PM

yes shi ne kawai wlh body no be wood
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Mjee Jul 19, 01:12 PM
since you are doing fine guy jst get married.
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Zahrau Jul 19, 02:38 PM
ae mafita daya ce kayi aure kawai Allah ya hadaka da ta gari
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Anonymous #1 Jul 19, 02:59 PM
get married May Allah bless u with a pious spouse
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Anonymous Jul 19, 04:07 PM

that is temporary and not very practical on the long run. I am looking for a permanent solution, once and be Done.
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Anonymous Jul 19, 04:11 PM

I love my life the way it is, and i just don't want to get married for personal reasons. If i can get rid of this sick feelings then it would be great for me
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Anonymous #2 Jul 19, 05:11 PM
Get married Mr
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Ummeserlmerh Jul 19, 05:53 PM
Fasting, Regular Exercise but the exercise should be focus more on control, but I strongly suggest you get married since you have the means to unless you get another problem with that.
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Anon 123 Jul 19, 07:17 PM
please get married …. fitnah may come from places a person does not realize, so you should be keen to close the door before it is opened without you realizing it. The Messenger of Allaah said Whoever turns away from my Sunnah is not of me. Since you are capable and healthy you should🌚. Sorry for the advice you didn’t ask for
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Anonymous Jul 19, 08:55 PM

I know getting married is an option and many people have told me that, I just really enjoy me lifestyle as it is now, my house from outside looks like a family house but i mostly live alone except if i have guest. so i am used to comments from people. My question is if there is actually any way i can just get rid of it, its much more better than getting married i think. I am just trying to find a way out, my last option is marriage but i won't give up until i can't any other option
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Anonymous Jul 19, 08:56 PM

My reason for not wanting to get married is simple, just a lifestyle choice i chose for myself. but its really eating me up and making me lose hope in the life i wanted for myself. I hate that nonesense feeling, i just want to get rid of it, abun yana damu na sosai.
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Ummeserlmerh Jul 19, 09:17 PM

To get rid of it permanently your body has to stop producing testosterone permanently, the testicles and adrenal glands are responsible for testosterone production so duk abnda zai stoping production nashi will help stop any sexual feelings.
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Anon 123 Jul 19, 10:00 PM

Don't you adore babies when you see them. Toh dai Allah sa you won't do something that you will regret later in life. . Marriage has never been a barrier to achieving things, rather in most cases it is a support and a help .
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Anonymous Jul 19, 10:56 PM

Well, I like babies but i can't trade them for the life i am living now. I am really satisfied the way i am, and to be honest, i just really love the lifestyle. I have food, shelter, cars and all the things i do, from work to recreational activities, ... most days i wake up happy, people even ask me why i am always smiling.. but until i start getting this unwanted feeling, sometimes my mind closes up and i sleep for hours just to suppress it and when i see women, i will start thinking of some stupid things and that's not who i am but i am helpless, i can't control my thoughts and urges. If i can get rid of it then i can see myself living comfortable with little worries Alhamdulillah. Marriage is my last resort but i believe it is possible to resolve this without marriage, hence my reason for this post.
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Ameeerah21 Jul 19, 11:31 PM
AURE!!!😭😂
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Anonymous #6 Jul 20, 12:38 AM
Dear poster, I'm in no way to advise u as regards marriage but I will say you be careful of your utterances, you never can tell what the future holds. Remember words are stronger than we may think of it... You might think your fine and doing great rn because you are single but what if you suddenly develop the interest later but you already took drastic measures regarding it?? pls do not make hasty moves and jst kip praying to Allah for ease and the good out of it all🤷
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Musa Abdullahi Jul 20, 11:55 AM
You don't want to get married and you want to enjoy your life at your mid 30s???? Good luck!
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Anonymous #8 Jul 21, 01:14 AM
poster u are not a serious person,u yourself u know marraige is the solution to your problem yet u are pretending ........so wat else do u want to b told,if u like fast nd exercise till thy kingdom come,u will still have urges since your physiological functions are ok,...........if u like don't do the needful
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Anonymous #9 Jul 21, 01:28 PM
While medically we have one option is to do vasectomy, however islamically you’ll be a crazy person to do that, sorry but it’s the truth because it’s sunnah to get married & complete the half of your deen. I doubt even In developed countries they do it. the next option is for you to go to saudi & engage yourself in haramain, macca & madina after umrah. since your financially stable. Fast, Recite Alots of Qur’an & Avoid watching bad vedios & social media, hope it helps. all the best
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Anonymous #11 Jul 22, 11:48 AM
Here is the thing, I think you know very well what u need to do, am sorry to be very blunt! This is what is called self deceit. Am in my mid 30's too was married bad experience, 2 other relationships that didn't pan out well either! My issue was blind trust, I was gaslite in my last relationship and I decided to quite in all push myself to my work, don't have many friends anyways and I made sure I do not get in any relationship with anyone to avoid deception luckily for me I don't have sexual desires with anyone am not in love with, so my desires am emotionally inclined. For most men may be bad relationship or great relationship experienced that u feel it cannot be replaced, NEWS FLASH my friend mark my word "THERE IS NOTHING IN THIS WORLD EXPERIENCED THAT U CANNOT GET BETTER ONLY IF YOU BELIEVE IN THE FAVORS OF YOUR LORD" u have desires pray u have a solution to your problem an answer to your prayer THERE US ABSOLUTELY NO RUNNING FROM HIW GOD CREATED YOU. my advise change lifestyle embrace your God given nature, get yourself a partner. And do not do anything that u will not want same to be done to you, your sister or your daughter. Know that every decision we make have consequences on others. Gaslighting ladies is not a way to go.
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