I get turned off when i know a lady is from abuja, Am I Alone?
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Anonymous Jul 7, 07:03 PM

I get turned off when i know a lady is from abuja, Am I Alone? 0

So, I'm a guy late twenties looking to Marry another wife, I've been on the marchmaking section but the moment I see a girls location to be "Abuja" regardless of whatever interesting is on her profile or how beautiful she looks... it just takes her to a 0 in my mind. Yan Abuja ne, da jaraba and standards that isn't standarding. Am I alone on this? my biases are based on friends Ive who grew up in Abuja and how they behave.
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Zee Abdul Jul 7, 07:22 PM
But whats your reason? what do you think of yan Abuja?
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Anonymous #1 Jul 7, 07:45 PM
you might be right on your perceptions of yan Abuja but all are not the same… they are actually those ones who comes out from good homes and are under the watchful eyes of our parents..Poster I grew up in Abuja with my parents but let me tell you something… I know the type of home I come out from and home training won’t let me do a lot of things… About being materialistic, it just depends on the lady and doesn’t have to do with being in Abuja or not…
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Anonymous #3 Jul 7, 08:33 PM
bro just pray and wait for Allah choice
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Anonymous #1 Jul 7, 10:06 PM
poster do you mean late thirties or late twenties?
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Anonymous #4 Jul 7, 11:34 PM
😂😂😂this must be coming from a very greedy person because what’s this???..make it make sense please!!!
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Aryatu Jul 7, 11:50 PM
but what’s your reason?
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Anonymous Jul 8, 05:59 AM
Abuja people are triggered in the comment section. 😂😂😂
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Anonymous #5 Jul 8, 06:53 AM
Im not criticizing you ohhhh buh late twenties….?!! Another wifeee…???!!! Bawan Allah adai bi a hankali, A gyara uwargida ba sai an karo mataba🫠
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Anonymous #6 Jul 8, 08:50 AM
Ni i didn't even understand his post.
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Anonymous #2 Jul 8, 12:34 PM

no, because you did not openly mention your reasons, so tell us.. what do exactly are you talking about that turns you off
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Alameen Abba Jul 9, 01:35 AM

over 90 person of ppl thinks or sees abuja ppl as materialistics
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Anonymous #7 Jul 9, 08:15 PM
poster............wic one is Abuja ppl are materialistic.......just kuku tell us u want a second wife but u no wan spend money.....bro...everybody is materialistic oo....no even think am,u yourself u are materialistic otherwise u for no wan marry second wife in your late twenties
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Anonymous Jul 9, 08:20 PM
apparently, Abuja people are defending themselves in the coment section. But then, I didn’t even mention being materialistic. my issue with Abuja ladies is rooted in the standards they set for themselves based on fantasy. Lack of regard for family and the whole “me too” mindset and feminism bla bla bla. Abuja woman would divorce her husband because he wants to marry another wife then drag him to court to ruin his life. run to HRC or other NGOs among others. Abuja people normalized things that should never be normal, in behavior and livelihood. to say but a few. the fact that y’all are hammering on materialistic and defending means y’all know say una get problem. ✌🏽
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Fareeqx Jul 10, 08:36 AM

arewaup did not make provision for DM here but pls I will like to know you more, am really impressed by your respond and the family upbringing you get.
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Anonymous #1 Jul 10, 10:35 PM

thank you, I appreciate the compliment I'm Zara. you're Farouq right ? from your name above.
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Anonymous #2 Jul 11, 05:36 AM

I think what you guys are about to do is actually prohibited
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