Anonymous
May 15, 02:53 PM
My boyfriend is dirty, how can I politely help?
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my boyfriend of about 5 months is dirty and I don't know how to talk to him without hurting his self esteem. He doesn't dress neatly, he doesn't brush well because his teeth are yellow, his nails are always dirty and I have to beg him to cut them or even bring a nail cutter to cut them myself sometimes. his hair is unkempt, he doesn't barb well or even style it in any fancy way. When I speak of hygiene or neatness casually, he says women are the ones expected to be clean. please help me with advice. How do I make him improve? because I'm tired. I'm not attracted to him because of this hygiene issue but he's a really good person that I don't want to lose.
