Salam alaikum. so there's this guy that I started talking to, he's the introvert type, barely talks. my biggest issue is he has no experience with relationship, he had only one previous relationship and he was matched with the girl (btw is over 30 years old) so he doesn't know how to impress a girl or win her heart. He's given me gifts twice (not really what I would get for myself tbh) and he calls everyday but he has no game whatsoever. I feel the relationship is more like friendship ba wani love at all.
he even finds it hard to look at me straight in the eye . please advise, what should I do? I'm an emotional person, I like flowers, cards, letters but he doesn't seem to get it
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ahahha, ki bata shawara dai sai ta gayamai da kanta
hold him tight. This kind of men are very rare. You should take the lead, and if you play your card you might end up turning him to a mere "yes ma'am" type (mijin tace)
what causes the break up from the previous gf 🤔.. let's know so we can easily advice u. on how to handle it
you should take the lead make him understand what u want n besides people like him are rare to get I advice u hold him tight tunda bawani mugun hali ne dashi bah
Allah mai iko 🧐🤔🤔
bad guys ain't no good and good guys ain't no fun
Mata iyayen mu
ku dai ba’a iya muku, komai sai kunyi complain a kai
rare spec
you teach him what you want
You can give him hints whenever you're conversing. You need not to be direct. Like for instance tell him about a friend of yours or a movie movie scene where a guy gifts his girl one of the things you listed and then you be like "God it melted my heart, wish I could be in her shoes."
Or "one thing I really miss about my ex is how he gifts me bla bla bla". These instances may be too obvious but you get the gist.
And if you do love him so much, you can guide him on how to impress you. You can mould him yo be the guy you want. After all that aspect of his brain is still not occupied
ki fada masa what u want and what I don’t want and Ke zaki koya masa
the issue with women is they want someone with experience, experienced guys are mostly playboys… he’s dated and broken the heart of 3 dozen ladies. one sure thing is, introvert won’t play with your feelings.
Since you know he’s an introvert, you’ve to know you’ll be responsible for driving the fun part of the relationship, you’ll have to initiate the roller coasters you like. if that’s too much, you should end it with him honestly and don’t break his heart
He's just a matured man + husband material. By the time you reach his age, you'll realise that all those things are fantasies not love
teach him how to love, tell him all theses things.
Oh God see somebody pikin they play with better chance
abeg connect me with this your guy now, I no need the gift sef
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