my girlfriend cheated on me after 3 yrs of relationship I am heartbroken and can't trust any girl again. Kuma all because the guy is from abroad and is rich. dama haka Mata suke? abin duniya ya dame su ba mutum ba. I am thinking if I continue like this (no girl friend) and don't get married what will happen? Good or bad please say your opinions
Abunda ze faru shine, you will end up lonely without a family of your own. Kuma ai ba dole se ka sake yin relationship ba kafin kayi aure, you can get a wife among your extended family cousins da yan uwa.
it's not a big deal, it depends on your perspective of life. there are unmarried people who are happier than married couples.
How you look at life and your goals will determine whether it will be good or bad for you.
e.g Ask yourself.
- Do you want a family?
- will living alone make you lonely & miserable?
- Do you want kids?
it's individualistic, so assess yourself and evaluate.
What she did is not gud cox taci amananka but wat ur thinking of doing is not a solution saboda zaman kadaici baida kyau yakan iya jawo matsaloli dayawa da shiga damuwa har yakaiga kamuwa da cututtuka ta yawan tunani..Yes wasu matan gsky son duniya da kwadayi yamusa yawa but baduka bane akoi some that are not after material things .shawara na shine ka cireta aranka kawai kuma kaita addu'a mace tagari insha Allah u will find a better person than her, wacce zata soka for who you are
Dear poster you need to change your mindset about ladies ba dukkah aka taru aka zama daya bah muma an yaudaremu not once not twice but what did we do? Giving up is never a solution so please fight until you get the love that you truly deserve mind you sai ka Dave da addu'a it's good kayawaita karanta Rabbana hablana min azwajina wazurriyatani qurrata a'ayun waja alna lilmuttaqina imama In Shaa ALLAH zaka daceh tbh rashin aure can be very bad for you kaga nafarko aure dai sunnah ceh babba na biyu kuma anayin aure to protect one's chastity in order to avoid fadama zinah ALLAHU A'ALAM
i think most if not all ladies are like that fa, its the nature of women they only worry about what they will get with a man most don't even care about the man at all but his possessions. my own personal experience.
Believe me when i say dama can ba matarka baceh..remember Allah created us all in pairs..wa khalaqnakum azwaja
Kuma remember that whatever Allah decree is right.. It may be that she's not good for u n thats why Allah removed her from your life
Be hopeful.. Allah has better in stock for you
Well the issue of rich guy from abroad and all, I think you shouldn't jump into conclusion, more of like know her side of the story, maybe gani tayi he's more capable of holding her due to her class of family and all, sometimes we ladies have to go for the rich guy not because of what he has, but the comfort they give us, 😂😂😂😂
Let him know sister, the thing is just because one breaks ur heart shikenan all ladies are the same
Wlhy it's not like that kawai u weren't lucky neh edan kaceh haka u r not being just mu ma we're victims we have been played our feelings have been toyyed with but what can one do? all we can do is pray and hope that the right one is coming soon enough!
Shine ay koh fingers dinmu aren't equal!!!
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