I like a guy he's my course mate gashi yanzu muna final semester I have tried to give him hints but no avail we have spoke a few times and I really love him sosai since last year but I am shy to make it obvious, I don't want to loose him after school. please what is the best thing to do? should I propose directly or start a friendship to give him more hints. pls advice me.
It depends on the guy. Similar thing happened to my friend during my university days she started with friendship and after a while texted him saying she loves him and want them to be together this guy politely declined and said he's not ready and she had to deal with the feelings of rejection especially from a Guy.
There are guys who dream of being propose so if you propose to them its a dream come true and they will accept even if they don't feel same for you.
Also there are players who will use you, I don’t have to describe these ones.
Generally I don’t think its a good idea just start a friendship & give him hints if he doesn't propose himself just move on with your life
since you said you have spoke a few times, you can be able to tell from your interaction.
if you are sure he has feelings for you go ahead else it's not worth it.
as a guy if a girl propose to me i will accept except if she's not attractive, even if i don't like her at first after some time i will decide weather to stay with her or not. its tempting to have a girl propose to you.
Yes if you are sure the boy likes you too sometimes we guys too can be shy
It's better kufara friendship din edan still yakasa ganewa then please don't be shy open up to him if not garin kallon ruwa kwado ya miki kafa
You said final year Ko walahi just tell him direct Bawani freindship Idan yayi accepting toh
Idan yaki final semester ne ai Sai a rabu Kowa Yayi nashi waje
Note : b4 u tell him make a research on him Idan yana da girl friend and know what to do
No please show him some moves on phone. Be calling him from time to time, if he loves you he will reciprocate
Starting a friendship is d best option, bcoz mu maza muna da matsala daya, idan mata suka fito fili suka gaya mana suna son mu toh fa zamu amsa mata mun amince amma ba har zuci ba, but amma kuma with tym idan ana relationship din muka ga yadda suke nuna mana so mu kuma muna basarwa karshe sai guilty concious ya kama mu, mu dinga thinking abinda fa mukeyi fa is not good, A hankali a hankali sai mu fara gyarwa har muzo mu fara kaunar su
Well dear, go for what you want, if you love him tell him, even if he doesn't feel the same don't feel bad kinji, rather be happy that u were brave enough to say the matter within you, your heart's desire
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