Everyone of us is tested with one thing or the other. I believe my test is love/marriage. And Alhamdulillah I I have accepted my fate/my test in hope of being rewarded for my patience. Ever since I was little I have always loved the idea of a happy home. Kullum in muna drama I always play a mother/wife role.
So my tests are the two things I love most. To find love and to have kids.
My love for kids ko. Hmmm you guys won't understand before I got very busy with work, I always go to the hospital in ana wa yara vaccine. And I come back being so happy. The whole day zan dame yan gidan mu da kunga wata baby MashaAllah. Kunga kayan da aka sama ta etc.
I try to be happy rather I will say I am happy and alhamdulillah I have a business that engages me . But when night comes and I lay down on the bed... With my phone checking messages it feels so lonely and sad no personal messages just business related or group chats.. alhamdulillah am not complaining.
But having no one to talk too ba dadi. Dan chatting din nan before sleeping dan good morning text dinnan. 😆.
And this aya also breaks my heart...
"We have created you, males and females, from one type, so that each of them may find comfort in the other, so that there may be affection and compassion, which will result in offspring."
Ince Allah kai fa kace haka... Unite me with my comfort too. Alhamdulillah ala kulli halin.
Ameen Thumma Ameen
wow.....so amazing. where are you from?
Allah Sarki, I bet many can relate.
Alhamdulillah you have find something to keep yourself busy, May Allah make it easy on all of us.
Keep looking and don't get tired though it can be exhausting....but definitely when the time is right it will happen.
Jannah is the goal, keep striving for it, don't let this distract you dear sister, Allah said [Surah Al-`Ankabût: 2,3]
"Do people think once they say, “We believe,” that they will be left without being put to the test?
We certainly tested those before them. And ˹in this way˺ Allah will clearly distinguish between those who are truthful and those who are liars."
In another place Allah said
"[Surah Muhammad: 31]
We will certainly test you ˹believers˺ until We prove those of you who ˹truly˺ struggle ˹in Allah’s cause˺ and remain steadfast, and reveal how you conduct yourselves."
so the struggle is real and the reward is enormous, so be patient, fear and seek reward from Allah.....Insha Allah your wishes will be fulfilled soon.
yeah it does.... but lokaci will come... have a lil Faith......
ameen thumma ameen
Ameen ya Allah ,
ur age nd ur location huh.?
Ameen ya hayyu ya qayyum
Aamin yaa Rahman... We are together in this my dear.
I’m also facing this too
my dream was to be married at 22 max, give birth to my 4 kids , at 35 max I hv close d chapter of giving birth 🤰 den I’ll start enjoying life wit hubby lol.. but guess what I’ll be 29 next month nd I’m single, every man that comes my way wants my body, they say I’m extremely sexually attractive, I do not hv bad character or am I fleet oo.. but still they still want my body first nd if I refuse they go.. the only one who’s not loving me for my kuma is totally broke, no job, no money, no business,no money to even start business, nothing..
I hv accept my fate maybe I’m not destined to marry in my 20s only Allah knows ..
may Allah make it easy on us all. Aminn
and grant us that which is best for us in this duniya nd hereafter. Aminn
Allah sarki! Allah ya bada mafita
hello can we get to each other more 😊 please?
Be patient my dear, You also have to check yourself in some other way. We all know how it feels but we keep pushing.
I hope you're not thinking too much and depressed at the same time.
If you think you really need someone to talk about anything which you're feeling shy to say or you need any advice please email me okay and don't be shy or scared to talk to me.
williamshanson26@gmail.com
Be patient my dear, You also have to check yourself in some other way. We all know how it feels but we keep pushing.
I hope you're not thinking too much and depressed at the same time.
If you think you really need someone to talk about anything which you're feeling shy to say or you need any advice please email me okay and don't be shy or scared to talk to me.
williamshanson26@gmail.com
Yeah, I understand your pain.
But you need to understand that nowhere does it say ine must get married in their 20s nor is it a bad thing not to be.... everyone has their life planned by Allah, there are aspects of your life that you have control over, take charge of thise things and maake the best out of it...things like your character, your knowledge, your well being keep yourself busy with those things why still been open to marriage..... those things that are beyond your power trust the one above, He knows what is best for you and will make it possible for you at the best time.. sometimes we'll love something and it's not good for us OR we'll hate something while it's best for us....the best thing is to trust the Knower of the Unseen, who loves you more than your mother does, things will unfold Insha Allah, just keep working and preparing for that time.
hmmmm
thought I was the only facing these,and the surprising thing is,ba dogon buri, like for me i never say Sai Mai mota,Koh Sai Mai kudi just rufin asiri,but till date no responsibile guy to hold on to,most especially at night like you said,no chatting,no good night messages,no morning messages,I really want to get married but I believe is not yet time😩now like these I have to continue school because I was given option to bring husband but there is no one to present so I have to continue with my Masters,even though deep down am not interested, Because wallahi am scared with the way things are going now,a girl with degree sef is struggling with husband talk more of the one with masters,the only thing is for us to keep praying 🥰🥰 Allah ya Mana zabi mafi alkhairi 🙏🥰
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True Jannah is the goal...
Allah ya kawo mana dauki
No am not depressed alhamdulillah. I just get sad sometimes
No dogon buri fa... Hmmm. Allah ya kawo mafita yasa mu ci jarabawan mu
Ameen
aslm....let's see if we matched each other
drop a message there. 09043880105
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may Allah Grant u ,ur heart desire
ameen.wallahi that is wat am going through am more than 30 years it do disturb me somethings too,I will cry and cry something but am praying abt it now.its reducing small small
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