I fell for my friend's bf
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Anonymous Nov 15, 05:31 AM

I fell for my friend's bf 0

Aslm I don't even know where to start wlh I fall in love with my friend bf. they where actually getting married next month but the wedding have been cancelled, I meant this guy at our school he came for some work wlh I didn't even know he was her bf I fall in love with him the first time I meet him. I later found out that he's ur bf gashi I can't stop thinking about him I couldn't sleep properly since that day 🥹 I pray Allah yacire mun sonshi but is like I can't control myself, I try all the best to avoid them but I can't and anfasa bikin yanzu dai wlh narasa yazanyi darayuwata pls I need advice am loosing my mind I wish he can see this post 😢
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Fatima Alfa Nov 15, 05:38 AM
pray tahajjud at night,if u can do it every night it's better even though is to raka'at
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Zainab marafa Nov 15, 06:30 AM
just pray for d best 🙂 if he is meant for u u will surely see wonders 😇
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Suleiman Hassan Nov 15, 06:44 AM

Girl!!! first of all lets keep the word *tahajjud* aside....what has tahajuud got to do with a lady having feelings with her friends husband to be..?🤔 so she should pray to God and tell him what? (1) that God I love my friend husband to be,,,please let me have him OR (2) that God I know this is a sign for me to re-direct his attention towards me since the wedding as been postponed.... Can't you guys read the end of the story that "she prayed Allah ya cire mata sonshi ar zuciya" and you believe that crap??😡 all this na scam (1) she didn't pray to God on anything... (2) she just wanted to have him all by herself in probably because of some qualities (good) she noticed (3) He won't see/read this So my advice for you here is cut the crap and go/hustle yours kawaiii nothing like say you're loosing your mind....girlfriend wey don hustle get her man,you wan con collect am with your loosing mind word😡😡
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Suleiman Hassan Nov 15, 07:14 AM

I read that as well.....cause the wedding have been cancelled so she should go ahead abi..??? (1) why was the wedding cancelled...??? you don't know either so she said anfasa....there's no judging here but you who is trying to say something but can't (speechless) anyway have said mine and judged kawaiii
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Anonymous Nov 15, 07:45 AM

thank you if I wish to have my way I will have done that since
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Anonymous Nov 15, 07:50 AM

pls you know nothing about there relationship if I want to have my way I will have tell him everything and have him but I try to make sure they maintain there relationship and she mess up everything so how am I at fault when man fall in love is ok but when woman do u guys have problem with it
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Ahmadu20 Nov 15, 08:18 AM
sometimes people come over to dis platform seeking for justification for their action and deeds but in reality they know what they want. they only want to make themselves feel at ease by feeling remorseful towards their actions...
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Anonymous #2 Nov 15, 08:36 AM

see, you don't know what someone is going through so either say something positive or just pass the pass. i love this forum and how it has been supportive , lets keep that energy
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Bhillyamin Nov 15, 09:29 AM

you're right that's why at times I don't like to post on this type of matter because Chinua achebe once said"if you only hear one side of the story,you have no understanding at all" and the truth is the most of these stories been told to reader to hooked to the story in such a way that he/she lives almost the same as the protagonist of the story.please don't get me wrong o but not everything is prayer,fasting and taajud to every problem/ post in this forum,Sometimes the truth of some post is disgusting,wack and bitter, we all knows that as bitter truth and even the writter/poster knows too and chooses to be anonymous peace and hatred for none❤❤❤
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BabyG Nov 15, 11:34 AM
but why was the wedding canceled?
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Hawwah Nov 15, 11:35 AM

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣!!! Uv said it all! we all know Dua is the best thing to do a duniya! But u cant just continue doing rubbish amd claiming kana addua! U need to adjust, u need to take risk u need to cire son zuciya! U cannot play God because Allah ma cewa yayi tashi na taimake ka! Do u fall ill and just lie down making dua? U go to the hospital for treatment that is called effort and u make dua for healing!
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Hawwah Nov 15, 11:37 AM

ashema suleiman ne yayi commenting!🤣... i was in a haste to comment because i even thought it's a lady tht commented!
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Zakariya Nov 15, 12:47 PM
I'm sorry, just pray hard about it
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Suleiman Hassan Nov 15, 01:56 PM

hmmmmmmm!!!! so Suleiman can't comment🤔🤔,,,,anyway sha this is how it works in my own perspective...there's differences between a boifrnd and husband to be...someone who has pass through all legal right of relationship is a no go area to fall into(introduction and the rest)....okay fine the wedding has been cancelled according to her......what's the cause? (1) Genotype (2) sudden dislikes or hate among both parties..and so on.....since her friend is there she should back off wani wai tahajjud and tell God what.??? (1) that am inlove with my friend husband to be please God help me win his heart...chaiii Women!! (2) that please God make this wedding no show make i snatch him away..... when you travel you see alot....person just sit down for one place....my advice still stands Girly kindly back off kawaiii and let them be make she no bring prayer inside this matter....peace🦅
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Suleiman Hassan Nov 15, 01:57 PM

that story is skeletal....!!!
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Suleiman Hassan Nov 15, 01:58 PM

exactly.!!!! have her own but not that of her friend's
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Suleiman Hassan Nov 15, 02:02 PM

seriously...!! you said your way!!! you can't cause surely you will regret making that move...have you ask yourself what's the main cause of the cancellation??? that's if it was really cancelled.... (1) don't you know by so doing you're falling into a trap of no return (2) have you ever felt dumped after been used before...am not attacking but rather guiding you....he might use that opportunity to friend and be-friend you...anyway is your shot
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Suleiman Hassan Nov 15, 02:05 PM

going through like how??? be positive too anonymous!!! you like the guy at first but couldn't express your feelings due to personal reason,,,later on you find out your friend is into same guy and even pass through the marriage goals,,,,now you come dey say you love him like die🔥 even to sleep na wahala....haba mana ku karanta word to word mana
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Suleiman Hassan Nov 15, 02:06 PM
I don tire masef…..next post!!!
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Ummi1 Nov 15, 02:48 PM
okay are thy still together if thy are not together I will encourage to go for him but before going for the relationship,investigate the reason why thy cancel this ur wedding,if the fault is from her ,my sister go for the relationship. reply this before I type more
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BabyG Nov 15, 06:37 PM

gaskiya dai
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