Struggling to make and keep friends
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Anonymous Nov 4, 01:00 PM

Struggling to make and keep friends 0

I realize I am a lonely person, I'm already broken and feel distant from groups or individuals. I can't keep going on like this. I'm done with school , didn't make any commitments with friends, and now i regret it. Even social gatherings at home and school I secluded myself Life is not just about what know ,but who you know. Now I'm ready to make changes,and I'll need advice.
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Addarh Nov 4, 01:02 PM
are u a female
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Anonymous Nov 4, 01:36 PM

Yes I am
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Anonymous #1 Nov 4, 01:51 PM

to me Gaskiya i think better you should seat am think whose company dis u enjoy most female or male then u can make friends
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Miss Lymer Nov 4, 01:52 PM
can we be friends? though I base in minna and I school in sokoto
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Anonymous Nov 4, 02:13 PM

I'm based in abj, finish my school in kd. How do we go about it
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Anonymous Nov 4, 02:15 PM

Is not that easy to find friends who share similar interests with me. And most people are always lying about themselves
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Anonymous #1 Nov 4, 02:35 PM
but where is ur base
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Miss Lymer Nov 4, 02:51 PM

I think we start by chatting kenan. or what do you think????
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Aleeyu Muhammad kabeer fagge Nov 4, 03:07 PM
can we be a friend's ? I'm Aleeyu staying at Kaduna
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Abubakar Usman Nov 4, 03:21 PM
🤦‍♂️ where should I start…
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Tijjani Muhammad Nov 4, 05:00 PM
lol some dude sha
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Nana Khadija abubakar Nov 4, 06:20 PM

am based in abj,if we can be friends because I have similar issues like yours
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Yasmeen Nov 4, 06:46 PM
This forum has turned to "making new friends". Allah yasa ayi abota mai Albarka da gaskia
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Anonymous #3 Nov 4, 06:53 PM
I'm a loner too. The difference between you and I is I love being alone even though people keep trying to show me the negative of it. I've tried making friends but fail lots of times so I've given up on trying. I just let things flow naturally. If we're meant to be, we will be. But I've got a few friends. That social gathering thing drains my energy most of the time unless I'm with someone very close to me present. I don't feel comfortable in groups, but lately I have been forced to relate with people cos of work. And I think I'm beginning to change. Amma Allah Allah nake yi na tashi na koma gida 😅😅
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Fazee Omar Nov 4, 06:58 PM

actually that's true but can we be friends if u don't mind
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Jibril saeed Nov 4, 07:01 PM
don't change yourself to fit in. time shall tell.
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Medina Nov 4, 08:08 PM
I base in Abuja too, let’s be friends ✌️
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Anonymous #2 Nov 4, 08:46 PM
I'm open to new friends, so if you are interested in me being yourfriend then you let me know
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Anonymous Nov 4, 09:01 PM

I hope the friendship brings in positive value. So how can I reach you
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Anonymous Nov 4, 09:01 PM

That's why, I'm looking for people who have similar interests in life as me
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Anonymous Nov 4, 09:02 PM

Sure, I don't mind.. So what is the best step to take
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Anonymous Nov 4, 09:05 PM

I want to believe, you enjoy alone time. But if the few friends are bringing value to your life.then you're good to go in life.
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Anonymous Nov 4, 09:08 PM

OK , I hope this brings positive value in our lives. Can I have your email address
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Anonymous Nov 4, 09:09 PM

Sure, if we share similar interests in Sha Allah it will work out . I'm interested
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Anonymous Nov 4, 09:10 PM

Alright, interested what's the next step pls
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Anonymous Nov 4, 09:10 PM

Somewhere in Abuja
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Anonymous #4 Nov 5, 08:05 AM
It's never too late, first identity your interest and look for a social/religious/career group that help you meet your aspirations. It's as simple as that..
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