Hypocrisy of Malam Bahaushe in polygamy
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Phartymerh Apr 1, 11:33 PM

Hypocrisy of Malam Bahaushe in polygamy 1

Every-time the topic of polygamy countered, the first thing this men will say is that, it is God has given them the green light to marry up to 4 wives and there are exercising their religious duty. 1. They ignore all other sunnah's and even talk down on them, e.g marrying a wife older than you, they never do this, as if its not sunnah. they will only pick a sunnah that favors them and use it as a reason to justify their actions not even for the sake of practicing the sunnah itself. 2. why will you add another wife when your current standard of living is not that good and you can use that money to improve your life instead of adding more pressure to your self 3. it is not a religious duty to marry 4 wives, its an optional sunnah if you wish to, that doesn't put any obligation on you. Gaskiya this mentality has to change, you rarely find OTHER Muslims other doing this so rampant, unlike Hausa men, all they know is to keep marrying until they reach their limit. I know someone with salary of less than 50k and has 2 wives. if you talk he will start talking of sunnah, their standard of living is low and they can't even meet basic life necessities.
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Najib Ata Apr 2, 01:44 PM
Well I'm not mean to oppose what you have said, In fact am endorsing your point which mentioned that "Some men are adding married without looking at their current standard whether they can cope with it or not" 1- I wanna you to think wisely about what am gonna say and don't misunderstood my words. If men are not marrying more than one wife how the amount of spinsters would be and what would be the situation of our society, I will drop you one observation and I also suggest you to do it. Any community around the world where they're are not practicing polygyny marriage you will find them engaged themselves in adultery more than other community where are practicing polygyny marriage. 2- Our society only need to be aware about the impact of marrying more wives without having enough incomes. 3- What some people are forgetting is, A Northerner don't do anything without looking at the religious perspectives of that thing, so now we should Involve ulema in this issue to enlighten our peoples about the necessities of polygyny marriage.
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Mr. Aulaz Apr 2, 03:22 PM

I Agree with most of what you say, only the part that mention societies that don't practice polygamy engage in adultery more, do you mean saudi arabia and other muslims countries that rarely practice polygamy engage in adultery more than northern nigerians? Polygamy in hausa land is more tied to culture than religion. Allah yasa mu dace.
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