i met this girl some years back, from being jst friends to started dating like play like play, we really loved each other, we neva gt tired of each other we always joke, play, laugh, we became bst of friends while we still love each other, we had some misunderstandings along the way bt no one has ever came (as a third person) to settle us not even once all this while, we started talking serious abt our future, abt marriage and all, i neva thought in my life time she will ever leave me coz people will pay to have wat we had, if something hppn in our day to day life har Allah Allah mukeyi muzo mu bawa juna labari (thats the kinda r/ship we had) she became a part of me she bcme like my wife kawai time muke jira mu shiga gidan mu, har mun fara magana zan tura gidansu gaisuwaš But unfortunately last month she came from nowhere and told me dat nayi hakuri dat she chooses someone else not meš¢is if she was possessed,i tot she was joking, since i found out dat she's serious, l lost myself, i don't know wat to think,am feeling empty inside me,am sick, i ddnt knw how i will coupe without her in my life,i dont knw how to start over. pls i need some advice. thank you
Relatable! Engage yourself with some meaningful activities. A change of environment or a simple vacation can ease your burden. it works for me & I hope itāll work wonders for you too. Pray over it diligently , itāll hurt at first but thereās nothing prayer will not over come. Let it hurt but please donāt dwell on it for too long if not youāll end up loosing yourself in the process. Allah knows best but this too shall pass inshaAllah! Take heart, healing is a process & uāll get there only if you believe you can. May Allah make it easy for you .
Allah knows what's best for you.... So be patient please
Allah ya zaba maka mafi alkhair
my dear Allah knows best. its not going to be easy buh in sha Allah you will over come it with prayers and sabr
Itās quite unfortunate but, take it in good faith and trust in the almighty cause he knows what best for you.
Get you self engaged with something to reduce the thinking
Surely things are gonna fall in place for you again inshaAllah.
Forget about her and move on.. You two are not meant to be together... Perhaps, the breakup is for the good for both of you. However, the lesson here is that, it's not good to keep dating for too long. Shaytan will be you third party. May Allah see you this had time
Subhanallah...I my life story is exactly like urs if not sweeter and better, the only difference is that we are still together..I just hope and pray insha Allah nothing like this will happen to me...Allah knows that i love her with All my life and all i have..i also need ur prayers brothers and sisters šš
insha Allah
Ooh So sorry about that...just take care of yourself, keep yourself busy, try to get regular sleep and eat well š¢ you'll be fine inshaAllah.
Sorry May Allah ease away all your pains indeed the pain of break up is so unbearable but remember what ever happens to you is from Allah and he knows what's the best for you
don't forget Allah has told us in the Qur'an "we might like something that might not be good for us and we might hate something that might end up being bad for us" ( fa'asa an tahibbu shai'an fahuwa sharrun lakum' Wa asa an takrahu shai'an wahuwa khairun lakum)
so always remember this I'm sure Allah has planned something big for you so you just have to exercise patience
be strong and be prayerful
i Have Similar Case Last Two Months I Even Posted My Story on this App. i Know It Will not be easy it was not Easy For Me Too but. pray Pray nd Do istkhara if She is Right for You She will Come back to you If She Is Not.Allah Will Give You A Better Choice.. Bcs I Never thought i Can Have A better Choice that her ta The Time. but Wallahi Allah ya bani. nd Parents Are Involve so am Waiting For Time To Marry Ne. Allah Will Make it easy For U Bro
Amen
this was what happened to me 2 yearās back
mine was even worse than yours
mun so juna sosai
and harya tura gida anyi introduction
everything was moving smoothly in our relationship
i never thought zaimin haka
one day yazo yadena kira and is always busy
i got disturbed and ask ba wani reason daya bani
that heās just fade up with the relationship š„¹š
I thought i can never get over it and the pain will never go away
but with prayers and tahajjud all the pains and the hard feelings goes away
but sadly i find it hard to be in a relationship againš
am sorry.btw thanks
he was not right for you... its better like this when he didn't marry you. if that happened when you married him it will have been worst. So thsnk Allah & pray for the best
yea I'm always great full to Allah (swt) for that
Allah Will give you a better choice in sha Allah
try to forget her please and go on with your life as before, kusan haka yavfaru dani while am busy planning for our future ashe he choses someone two days babu labarin sa so i called to confront him and then i found out his mama choses another girl for him kuma nasan zancen ba gaskia kawai baya so nace mayaudari ne shi but what i believed is heartbreak last as long as you allow it so kawai nima na cire tunaninsa and then in just 3 days yanzu kaman ba ayi ba
Rayuwa tagaji hakan naka labarin kenan idanda zaka iya karantar zuciyata,u will understand dat nawani yafl nawani
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