Sep 12, 11:28 AM

advice pls

Am Confused To What I Should do... Am The Type that Loves & Care too Much. I know what i want in a Patner. so After years of Searching i meet this Girl that i come to like soo much She has Almost Anything That am Looking for Except for 1 Anger Issues 2 Trust issues. And because i love her I understand that I should make it Goal to Work on this things while we are dating before the time to marry. so Am doing my Best. She loves me soo much too. but then i have started seeing changes from the Way she treat me. i confronted her about it but she said its Nothing. so Few weeks back we Had A misunderstanding and as always she went on saying hurtful things. so as always i Ignore the massages to Avoid my self from Replying her when am Angry. i give it to days then i tryed calling her so that we sort things out. but she refused to pick after few days i tryed calling her Again but she refused to pick up this is about three weeks now. the mos annoying things is i was in an Accident nd she was informed by her friends but she Still didn't care to reach out.

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Sep 12, 12:46 PM
Try ND still check with her ND confirm if she's still interested in u, if not I ll advise u to let her be, ND pray for d best, May Allah give us spouses that are the coolest of our eyes.
Sep 12, 12:49 PM
I think she is tired of the relationship why don't you give her space for some time she will reach out to u if she truly loves u as u say
Sep 12, 01:20 PM
Anonymous #1 Sep 12, 12:46 PM

Try ND still check with her ND confirm if she's still interested in u, if not I ll advise u to let her be, ND pray for d best, May Allah give us spouses that are the coolest of our eyes.

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Ameen Thank you
Sep 12, 01:21 PM
Kifayat isah Sep 12, 12:49 PM

I think she is tired of the relationship why don't you give her space for some time she will reach out to u if she truly loves u as u say

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i will Try Tank you
Sep 12, 01:22 PM
what i really want to know is. if to reach her and Confirmed Or Let Her be
Sep 12, 01:30 PM
Anonymous Sep 12, 01:22 PM

what i really want to know is. if to reach her and Confirmed Or Let Her be

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I think to reach out will be better, any reaction u see will determine whether to continue or end it.
Sep 12, 02:18 PM
Anonymous #1 Sep 12, 01:30 PM

I think to reach out will be better, any reaction u see will determine whether to continue or end it.

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i just feel like this will make me apear needy
Sep 12, 02:39 PM
mayb she lost interest in you so definitely she doesn’t care anymore
Sep 12, 07:45 PM
Anonymous Sep 12, 02:18 PM

i just feel like this will make me apear needy

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yes, since she knows you have tried to ammend things and she intentioanlly refused. Let her contact you next if anything or just move on with someone else. there many good ladies out there fa why waste your energy on someone that does not even think your worthy of reply or attention. just my thoughts. All the best
Sep 12, 08:03 PM
Anonymous Sep 12, 01:22 PM

what i really want to know is. if to reach her and Confirmed Or Let Her be

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Let me brutally Honest. Let her be.
Sep 12, 09:52 PM
Anonymous #2 Sep 12, 07:45 PM
yes, since she knows you have tried to ammend things and she intentioanlly refused. Let her contact you next if anything or just move on with someone else. there many good ladies out there fa why wast[...] yes, since she knows you have tried to ammend things and she intentioanlly refused. Let her contact you next if anything or just move on with someone else. there many good ladies out there fa why waste your energy on someone that does not even think your worthy of reply or attention. just my thoughts. All the best
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tank You
Sep 12, 09:52 PM
Zain Sep 12, 08:03 PM

Let me brutally Honest. Let her be.

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thank you All for the Advice.
Sep 12, 11:16 PM
Trying hearing from her to know the reason why she's ignoring your calls. After that you can decide. May Allah make it easy for us all. Ameen
Sep 13, 06:38 AM
you had an accident and she doesn't even show concern, wat other prove do u need. she is gone and you should move on
Sep 13, 07:59 PM
Anonymous Sep 12, 01:22 PM

what i really want to know is. if to reach her and Confirmed Or Let Her be

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let her be
Sep 15, 11:21 PM
Zain Sep 12, 08:03 PM

Let me brutally Honest. Let her be.

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07063861594 never ending love
Sep 22, 06:00 PM
Ayyah 🥺
May 18, 07:44 PM
Your relationship is not based on mutual respect. You are the needy one and she's in control. Not a healthy relationship. Never marry someone who does not give you peace even before while you are courting.
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