is anyone here having same issue with mine??
as in if ure not involving yah self in that soyayyan shan minti or what ever they called it ure not wise enough as in baki waye ba i can't understand this pls dole ne en kuna soyayya da mutum sae ya nemi taba jikin ki in kinqi sae dae ku rabu🥺 this happens to me several times am just thinking i can't love again am tired
                
            
                its really unfortunate how it is rapidly becoming a normal thing. The men at the end have nothing to loose the side effect will end up with the lady. so ladies should please be vigilant and don't allow any man touch you unless he becomes your husband                
            
                wlh this is what 90% of ladies don't understand..Allah dae ya shirye mu duka                
            
                zamani ne, with fitna everywhere sometimes i feel like doing that but i just hold myself, i have friends that do that alot and they brag about it, feeling like bosses. I wish i can get married soon but i don't have the means ban san for how long i can hold it ba Gaskiya. Allah ya tsare mana imani.
i know for sure its something that once you fall into it it is hard to get out                
            
                it's happens nowadays sosai my advice here is no matter what you go through in relationship never allow a man to even held your hands what I believe in is a man who loves you for the sake of Allah will never ever attempt to touch you no matter what his intentions will always be pure believe me pray harder insha Allah it's khair                
            
                insha Allah thanks dear                
            
                Allah ya baka karfin sare imanin kaw                
            
                some guys will even tell you ai tunda kuna son juna bakomai ai Zai Kara sa kuyi sabo da juna ne                
            
                And they can even say ai ba haramun bane wai soyayya ne tunda atlast aure zakuyi.                
            
                am telling you                
            
                check yourself, your dress code.                
            
                you don't blame the guys, your manners are your beauty. the way you present yourself so you shall you be addressed                
            
                wlh hk suke maxan nan,Ni am tired mah wlh duk wnd yaxo gurinka sae kiga abu rimi rimi kamar nah Allah amma daga baya sae yayi t miki maganganu n rashin da’ah  Allah dae y kyautah                
            
                INSHA ALLAH                
            
                Ameen                
            
                same here sister,it has gotten to the extend that this men thought that have jinns because I drive away any man that come to me with that intention wai soyaiyan Shan minti idan bakyayi baki waye ba yanzu ba a wannan soyaiyan old days.i decided to keep myself busy with my Qur'an and continue to talk to Allah for the right choice and guidance                
            
                my brother even if a lady dresses all covered from head to toe,it has already become some else because and men takes it as nothing is wrong in doing that.i have to asked myself one day that what sin have I committed that all the bad men are coming to me but with time I get to realize that Allah test His servants in any way                
            
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