assalamu alaikum I'm a young lady who is so full of life since my day one I grew up hearing my story as a jovial little girl that everybody loves toh yanzu I'm grown up alhamdulillah I'm a kind of lady who wishes to have a man that will give her that love and attention a man with the intention of marriage. like I have so many ways to Express love to someone I always learn about that but I haven't gotten the right man I feel like I'm in a wrong generation I'm a girl who loves a lovey dovey man cuz I'm a lovey dovey person but I haven't met the right man to Express those. I've been in a relationship where the man tells me I'm too good for him and I deserved better it happened to me more than twice and they tell me that same statement of"i deserve better" SO WHEN WILL I MEET THE  BETTER PERSON " the society has made me hide my real self although I'm a happy person regardless I'm supposed to enjoy baby girl treatment 😭 not that men like that don't exist they do but I just see them doing that to other women and I feel those women are lucky to have the life I wish to have(not that I'm jealous of them ) I'm even happy for those ladies. my kind heart and loving heart is fading away due to meeting wrong men 😔 sometimes I feel like I'm under a spell or something (asiri) because whoever I met as a man tells me how wonderful I am and we never really breakup due to fight issue we just split because they think I deserve better 🤧 or they just ghost
                
            
                just to add up my friend told me I'm too good and men deserve someone who is quite rude that's the only way they can be faithful is that true?                
            
                please  never think you are under the spell. 
have faith in Allah and yourself the right person will come.
I dont know your age I believe you are still young                
            
                thank you I'm 25yrs                
            
                wow I understand your concern now.
Insha Allah nagari zaizo so that by next year muzo biki.
Just keep praying and give other people a chance as well                
            
                Don’t worry the right man will come just keep praying and put ur trust in Allah 
he’s the best planner                
            
                Any update from you?                
            
                I actually thought it's an old pos written years ago, lol                
            
                May be telling you,  you are too good for them is just a polite way of saying there's something you're doing that's not okay. So just ponder more and if possible ask them not with the intention of going back to the relationship to clearly tell you what actually made them to leave you                 
            
                not true gaskiya                
            
                Allah sarki…irin macen da nake so kenan                
            
        
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                Omg, that's very sad 
Do you need someone to talk to?
If yes ,then ,can I have your email?                
            
                nasu irin character din ana dayawa,Allah yasa mu dace                
            
                thank you sister                
            
                update in what sense pls                
            
                thank you 😊                
            
                does that mean I have a problem and they are not telling me? I thought communication is the key? I feel terrible, if there's anything terrible I'm doing they should be able to tell me ai but anyways Allah knows best                
            
        
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                so sorry about that I would have wished for us to know each other better but someone asked for that first 😊 Allah ya baka ta gari irin ka                
            
                Ameen y Allah 🙏                
            
        
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                may thats your kaddara, and you see in this life everything happens for a reason , keep on praying Allah knows best and he will see you through insha, if you need anyone to talk too I am here ok                
            
                gaskiya zan so in same ki 🥺🥺                
            
                emotional already 😊? sorry                
            
        
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                🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺                
            
                is it something you want to talk about?                
            
                you're the definition of what I'm looking for in a partner gaskiya. I'd love to get to know you better and see if we could be the lovey-dovey duo you're looking for                
            
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