Anonymous
May 13, 09:15 AM
I fell in love with a walking red flag
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I and my boyfriend met through social media, we're both mature adults and the first thing he told me was I was exactly his type and he was interested in marrying me which made sense to me because I also wanted to get married and I let him know right away that I wasn't interested in playing any games. So we both clearly stated our intentions right from day one, I don't know how but I fell in love and everything was going smoothly until it wasn't anymore. Fast forward to 5 months into the relationship and it has become one sided, he's always super busy and never has time to see me but I kept playing the patient and understanding girlfriend and brushed it off, I finally decided to express how his actions hurt me but he showed no regard for my feelings whatsoever and never apologized, he just left me on READ. I realized i'm only deceiving myself and now I want to move on from him but it's not easy so I made a list of all his red flags that I've been ignoring:
1.Doesn’t call you🚩
2.Doesn’t acknowledge your feelings🚩
3.Doesn’t show you he cares🚩
4.Doesn’t do anything for you🚩
5.Has never given you anything🚩
6.Doesn’t communicate🚩
7.Doesn’t care how you are🚩
8.Leaves you on read🚩
9.Doesn’t make any effort to make the relationship work🚩
10.Keeps canceling plans🚩
11.Sexualizes you🚩
12.Tries to touch you even after you expressed discomfort🚩
13.Makes promises he doesn’t keep🚩
14.Says he will call you back but never does🚩
No man that loves me will treat me this way and especially seeing how patient I've been with him. I'm hoping spelling out his flaws will help me move on and forget him quicker.
