I have a friend that was married last year, we are good friends and i visit her often and i think i like her husband and he likes me too, we ended up being in contact but she doesn't know.. he hasn't made any serious move but we communicate lightly. Is what i am doing wrong? what are your opinions?
                
            
                It is indeed wrong                
            
                Just have it at the back of your mind, Duk abinda kikayi sai anyi miki.
Meaning ko da yau ba shi kika aura ba, one of your friend can be in contact with your husband kuma zaki ji dadi da hakan ? Balle ma idan shi kika aura you’ll never trust him nor have peace of mind when your friends are around                
            
                imagine the same being done to you by a very close friend and it will answer your question. My advice is stop that nonsense u are doing immediately                
            
                Malamai bafa haramun bane                
            
                ok oo                
            
                Ana barin halaq dan kunya                
            
                but he is the one that even contacted me first on whatsapp, i am just being neutral in the whole thing                
            
                Hakane amma intanasonshi let her not deceive herself wai barin halaq Dan kunya fa koma Mai zasu gyarota da kawar daga baya                
            
                Daga gani kai namiji ne 😂
Continue deceiving yourself                
            
                so why are you here 🤔                
            
                Eh namiji ne ni bawani deceiving myself                
            
                Am here to give advice                
            
                no, it is right…continue                
            
                Sister don’t let anybody gaslight you, the females that are saying what you are doing is wrong is because of envy and jealousy!!
The man can marry up to 4 wives and communication is not a haram relationship since you guys are not intimate. If you sincerely love each other, carry in pls 
Don’t let them stop you from having a potential husband                
            
                Lol what is wrong about it! Most of you ladies are just emotionally manipulative and full of envy. It’s just communication and nothing intimate 
He has the right to marry her and nothing bad about them talking as long as she respects the wife                
            
                Wallahi you guys are not educated at all, go back to islamiyya! As long as she is only communicating and doesn’t disrespect the wife by calling at wrong times, then there is nothing bad about it 
Islam permits the man to marry up to 4 wives, grow up pls!                
            
                So basically what you are saying is a man can’t marry another wife? If he can, how does he do it without communication                
            
                It's likely he loves you truly, but based on experience as a man, it's most likely just lust and he's just trying to chop you and go especially if they are only recently married.                
            
                😂😂😂 mata kenan.... shekara daya da aure kila ma ko shekarar auren basu gama cikaketa ba kuma in ur right sense kina ga soyayya yake so kuyi! kila ayi auren ku karshen shekaran nan kema ki kawo mana iv nan ko?.... we re not blaming you or discouraging you. Amma wannan meeting ce muke so ki zauna ke da brain din ki ku yi,remove your heart from the hall please.... okay she's ur frnd, in kece acikin shoes din ta fissabillilahi zaki ji dadi? how will you accept the fact that just a year mijin ki yafara gane gane! yanzu ko da haka bai ishe ki ,ki gàne wanene shi ba? that's by the way tho. Men are very cunning in nature,when it comes to deception no òne does it better! mazan yanzu even worst, kawai fakewa sukeyi da zasu aure ka sbd sun San shine burin kowace 'ya mace ,suna samun fuska kuma shikenan sauran ya zama labari.  What I want you to understand shine  ki fahimci intentions din sa dai. ke yanzu kina kallon matar sa tana da bakin hali ne? Gdan sa babu Zaman lfya ne ? bata kyauta masa?daga ke har shi di shin kun kyauta mata kenan? shin tsakani da Allah kike son sa ko kuma kawai akwai kudi a hannun shi ko kuma don son zuciyar ki ne ko kuma kawai you re just desperate ne da kowa ya tabo ki kina so? Shin bawan Allah nan son ki yakeyi tsakani da Allah?if you have all the answers to this questions ,toh zan Iya cewa mu hadu a zango na biyu...Until then  be very careful, men are very manipulative more especially in sun kula mace bata amfani da number 6 dinta.... Aure dai shekara,kuma Yana baki greenlight! yar uwa akwai abun dubawa a lamarin nan..... However, Addu'a takwabin mumini! pray and pray and pray Allah ya bakì mafita. Be mindful of your brain,heart and actions kar su kai ki su baro ki..... Kar Kisha mamaki Kila ma kece kike ga Yana son ki! Mazan yanzu akwai munafurci a lamarin su yasin sun Iya catching cruise!!!                
            
                Maganarna gaskiya neh... Yar'uwa kidauki shawaran wannan bawa/baiwar Allah nan... Allah yasa adace                
            
                gskya bnga Wanda ya bada shawara Mai kyau irin ta baiwar Allahn Nan ba yar'uwa Allah ya biyaki in kunne yaji toh jiki ya tsira                
            
                waohhhh I don't know what to say but if the girl is really your friend put the husband in his place and tell him to leave you alone                
            
                U want to disturb her peace?? Devil is using u, move on, look for another man and don't fall in the devils trap.                
            
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