I have never been broken in my life like this
so my boyfriend has left the person I cherish in my life , I see him as a source of happiness in my life ,the person I communicate too all the time,my best friend whom I dream of future for us who I see as someone who will guide me jannah
this man told me that he's getting married to someone else that I should consider him as brother 🤧🤧 and these was even shedding fake tears Allah ya isa
it's really hard for me to take this I can trust man again same thing happened to me three times
men should fear God oo 🤧🤧
Sorry Sis
3 times sis which means you need to check yourself. like I said before you only get back what you give
My girl had 3 exes and seems like I'm about to be the fourth one. Women need to check themselves for real.
it's not form 🤧🤧it's kardara the first one was when I was in secondary school and the guy wanted to marry me but my parents said I must finish school and his mother disagrees with it
the second one is things were going all right then he wented haram relationship which I deny
the third one kuma is that I told I want to finish school uni then we can get married
and I said he should get another person later I realise my mistake but he said no he's getting married after all the promises
mind you he promised to wait till I'm done
but men will always be men sha 🤧💔
I don't blame the last one. In fact I'm in the same boat with the last one. She actually said the same thing you said too. But I know she'd regret it just like you.My girl postponed our wedding because she wants to finish uni. I promised to wait too but I told her it's not guaranteed or promised. I said she can be my second wife though or find someone else.
Are you thinking what im thinking why is it that me and you have similar case here I can remember 🤧🤧 same age with your girlfriend
Are you ready for marriage now?
why are you asking me these question🤧🤧 me now I have given up for love
sai kuma ikon Allah🤧
wait are you him because I know he doesn't know about this app🤧
ooh it's you. I remember I told you this is likely to happen in your previous post. my dear don't be harsh on yourself and your ex cus you virtually brought it upon yourself so just accept it has happened and try to move on instead of castigating men. cus from the reasons you gave as to why your previous relationships ended from the first and last guys they've done no harm to you for you not to trust men.
No I'm not. So what'd you need help with?
but why did he promise to wait for me 🤧
why did he said he will not marry any other woman expect me 🤧🤧
you gave him the option of getting another girlfriend right. And there's this uncertainty you've already created around and uncertainty creates doubt.
he denied it
good but what that guy did Ehen 🤧🤧
if he did to hurt me Allah ya saka min
and if he didn't do it to hurt me Allah ya basu zama Lafiya
But you told him to go and marry someone else na.
Where are you from and how old are you?
I was just being childish Neh but lesson learnt 🤧 I will learn to stop communicate everything to any person I'm going to date
My advice for you is to finish University without dating, since you're not ready for marriage. And when you're ready don't date anyone unless his intention is to date for marriage. And tell him to see your parents too if he's serious.
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why did you said you can't get married till after uni? don't you think that's where the mistake is?
that doesn't change anything and I repeat uncertainty brings doubt
just know that marriage doesnt prevent you from school, and school doesnt prevent you from marriage, kiyi haquri qaddara ya riga ya faru, i feel sorry for you, but that is what Allah has destined for you, so be patient and know that they're people who are in much more serious problems than you, let go of your former love life. And in shaa Allah things will get better, but you have to learn to accept what Allah sends your, sometimes you will hate a thing but it is good for you.
Sorry about that..
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