Hi everyone, a post by a lady in one group on Instagram about chubby ladies finding it difficult to get a boyfriend prompt me to do this survey.
I am a guy in my late 20s, a degree holder with a decent job, my salary is around 150k, alhamdulillah I am not handsome amma dai kuma bani da muni, but I'm fat daidai gwargwado.
I tried toasting many girls on different occasions unfortunately duka sun kasa ni. The question I want to ask here is that do you ladies also don't like chubby guys? Ko dai kawai lokaci ne bai yi ba. In Baku yi ne kawai sai mu ci gaba da azumi๐
kawai oga kagane kamar yadda namiji yakeji yanada kalar nasa za6in haka itama mace take dashi
salary aiki me kyau muni ko kyau baya sawa dole aso mutum kaci gaba da kokartawa akwai wadda tana nan Kuma duk duniya irinka takeso
so true
like me here I don't fancy slim guys
maybe there are not fancy of chubby guys kowa da abin da yake so
lokacine beyi ba bro ๐aci gaba da axumi๐๐คฃ
Acigaba da salati da hailala
No maybe you didn't get the right person that's why kakeh ganin haka
But In Sha Allah you'll get the right one ๐๐ฝ
Just keep praying
some chubby guys are nice n caring but kowa da abin da yake so
okay!
late 20s
a degree holder
monthly salary 150k
Dear poster....lemme Marry you for money sake
๐คฃ๐คฃ๐คฃ๐not because you like chubby guys kenan
I think maybe poster it depends on the specs you are after, some no matter average you think you are, if you are not that tall handsome and rubuta rich, they will not even answer you from their heart. but I am sure there are thousands of ladies out there who will outrightly accept you no matter how chubby you are. most of the times majority of what the ladies want is for someone to care for them and cherish them, and also support them no matter how stupid their ideas are.
but one thing I come to understand with women(or my fiancรฉ lemme be specific) is no matter how fullish her ideas are or her actions, they mostly do that in their own contexts as "to test you, or show you love or to protect you from other girls(which I found selfish of them๐
)" but whenever such a thing happens don't react to them with your emotions, if possible let them finish and calm down after the scene then talk to her wlh 90% of time they will regret what they did and apologize. though that's not a guarantee that they will not do it again o, but next one will be less than the previous one and they you know when to stop if they realise your mood is changing. anyways lemme not get carried away, just redefine your spec and pray it's the most important one in sha Allah You will get a better spouse, which I know even in here if you subscribe to that Hala match of a thing you will get many options to choose from and I am sure in sha Allah You will like it.
chubby guys are cool I think basu da rigima kaman siraran nan always find them so friendly to me ooo
Good advice ๐
150k as salary a yanzu ai ba komi bane
For me honestly, i find chubby guys extremely attractive. I even question myself if I'm just weird but that's just how I feel. So relax, it's just not time yet when it is, you'll surely find your one.
i like chubby guys more honestly
soooo,you guys too are facing same problem. Me i thought after being chubby,guys don't like a working class lady.
I am 29
done with my MSc
working with INGO
earning over 450k monthly
it's not like ba masoya,akwai but basa so afara zancan aure donno why?
Sister to be honest men don't want to marry a woman that they feel will be difficult for them to control, I am not referring to you rather I am telling you the general perception. Most men prefer to be ahead of their wives in age, wealth and knowledge. Kin ga for your own case there a few men out there da suke da characteristics din da nayi listing. But a ci gaba da addu'a Allah kawo na gari. Amm ai hajiya tunda akwai kudi za ki iya yin woof da wani ๐.
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