As salaam alaikum
I'm young orphan architect with family responsibilities (of about 15 people).
There is this girl that we are together since our primary school time, we really care for one another that some people think we are in love (the other way) but never in our lives, now that I'm in my late 20s and never have a fiancé, some of my friends are advising me to marry her (she is still single, never marry o) because they see the level of understanding that we have, any body that knows her know about me and otherwise.
She is working midwife in our specialist hospital while I were still looking for some job.
How do you think I will overcome the issue please. Thank you
All your lives ppl thought you were in love....But do you love her? cuz I didn't see where you agreed on that. So we have to know the stand you put her in ur heart clearly first before we will be able to come up with something for you
Thanks for your concern but I can't really say it. She is good and very religious but lack some of my specs like her skin color and she so friendly
Don't do what others ask you to just follow your heart
If you don't love her they're girls out there and you will surely find your partner and don't rush anything in this life
Just keep praying for the right one and Allah will give you In Sha Allah and after all aiki na Allah ne kuma zai baka In Sha Allah
Ai Naga alama....Follow ur heart bro, love is among the few things in life that ppl can't decide but only what ones heart chooses..... in this matter,I say allow ur heart to judge and decide.....Allah ya zabar maka mafi alkhairi
She seems like a kind person, if you like her, marry her.
In shaa Allah. Nagode
Amin ya Rabbi. Nagode sosai
Yeah very kind and generous
If I'm right I guess ita she doesn't fit your specs and kai kuma at the moment you can't afford wacce is your spec. Dan maganar gaskia in da tun da kana son ta da tuni ka fada mata and maybe you won't be waiting for your friends to validate her for you.
If I were you I would be realistic and ask myself if I truly love her and want her as a spouse, if it's a yes I would go ahead and ask her out; if not I would continue to hustle to make it so that I could be up to the level of getting my true spec. But anyway, there's also no guarantee that she's just waiting for you to propose and she comes running to accept you; she also might have her own spec.
you shouldn't follow what other thunk about you guys you should actually follow her heart ...
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