Should i do it? she's tempting me
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Hamis Ahmad Aug 8, 12:32 AM

Should i do it? she's tempting me 0

I have a christian class mate that shows interest in me for the past 7 month. she looks good and has a sexy body. we became normal friends until one day we talked about sex on chat and she said she wants do it and with me. i was surprised, she even sent me her nudes i masturbated that night and kept on thinking about her and sex always, if we meet in school she would be giving me hints and we touch each other. i just don't know what to do and i feel like i can't hold it wallahi if i'm with her har erection ina samu. should i do it please maybe Allah would forgive me later if i do tawbah? how bad is it to do Zina? because naji ance Allah yana yafe every sin banda shirk. i feel like i can't control the feeling anymore its affecting my studies please tell me your opinions thank you.
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Anonymous #1 Dec 6, 01:32 AM
Ka riga ka wuce iyaka, kuma duk zunubin daya shafi private parts are very dangerous, shiyassa Allah yace kar muje kusa dasu. Ya kamata ka qaurace mata gabadaya, delete her number from your phone cuz shaidaniyace, in ta biyoka kayi blocking dinta, terminate the friendship tunda dai Allah bazai tambayeka meyasa baka da female friends ba, ka daina magana da ita, ko hira, don't sit close to her in class, kuma bayyana mata kaushin hali irin naku na maza kuma ka hada da addu'a, ISA zata rabu dakai. Kawai 'yar saqon shaidan ce. Change your lifestyle, circle of friends and things you watch and listen to. Movies and music of today shi ke qaara hanaku controlling kanku, cuz you're always aroused. Kuma kana cewa zaka tuba afterwards, you should know that ba'a yi wa Allah wayo, you can finish your plan, ranan da kuka hadu yace maka baiga daman forgiving ba, and there's nothing you can do about it. Allah ya tsare mana imaninmu.
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Fauziyya Isa Hassan Dec 19, 08:52 AM

To me that alone should turn off any desire you feel for her, Astagfurullah! They are really irritating, kama yi kokari da har kake feeling that way about her... Either Christian or Muslim, Zina is Zina and honestly it's very wrong to indulge in it because if you know it starts you don't how it's gonna end, will it end soon or when you're old? Or even never and it becomes a never ending problem... It might be Allah's test for you and I pray you pass it with flying colours..
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Anonymous #2 Apr 21, 05:09 PM

I hope you know Islam allows a man to marry both Christian and Jewish women right? People of the Book.
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Khadija Muhammad Yahaya Sep 27, 06:04 AM
ya Salam, thinking of doing the sex and later ask for forgiveness isn't it funny to you,as a male you are allowed to marry Christian,why don't you marry her,i know you will probably say you are still studying you aren't ready for marriage, I'm sure you aren't ready for unwanted pregnancy and HIV too,my brother think twice
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Anonymous #3 Oct 9, 10:56 PM
You are fool!
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Anonymous #4 Oct 10, 02:31 AM
Avoid her brother. Don't do Zina.. It poison your soul and its addictive.. When you start you can't stop so its better for you not to start
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Teemama Yusuf Oct 17, 02:21 PM

first of all bai kamata ka bashi irin wannan shawarar ba ka fadi alkhairi ko kayi shuru,wani lokacin karancin ilimi ne yake sa mutane suke aikata abubuwa yanda ransu ke so,you have to go and learn more on the consequences of zina before commenting on this post and secondly duk mai aikata zina ya kwana da sanin cewa abinda kayiwa yar wata to tabbas sai anyi wa naka. ka fara tunani da ace kanwar kace ko mahaifiyarka ce take neman wani da zina zaka bata sharawa ne taje ta aikata abinda ke ranta ne ko zaka bata shawara kar tayi,lastly zina bashi ce watan wata rana sai ka biya shi
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Maimunatu Musa Nov 7, 12:50 PM

Ya Allah, why telling him to do it ? it's zinnah fa and Ka San hukinchin kuma 😥 then why sending him to do it ? That's really a bad advice wallah , think about the future bro za'a yiwa yarka or your sisters or even your daughter or your beloved wife 😥 Allah ye Hana but am sure that's what he's scared of, isn't it Mr Hamis? not him but some men too , So Mr Hamis Ahmad please just forget about her and be doing istighfar whenever you see her or think of her it's shaydan and duk in da kakal'leta just change your hanya kawai kana adu'a please, think about this she's someones daughter and a sister, even if she's not a Muslim but her mother won't be happy too and tana da heart too , but zinnah it's also a big sin Allah. And don't take his advice think about it please ?
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Maimunatu Musa Nov 7, 12:54 PM
she's a daughter,a sister and have a heart too , it's shaydan don't do it's, think about it if they do it to your sisters or brother too and a daughter or your wife 😥 how would you feel huh ? just change your way whenever you see her or be doing istighfar and salatin nabiyy duk in da kakal'leta and do ignore her it's the best wallah 😥
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Anonymous #5 Nov 13, 11:57 AM
You shouldn't do anything, what if you die while doing it, god might forgive you but if you start, it will be very hard for you to stop it. If you are able to marry my dear marry if u can't, then try fasting. That hunger will stop u from having that urge to have sex. And then tell her to stop and threaten her with something like reporting her. What if she gets pregnant.
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Anonymous #5 Nov 13, 12:02 PM

I'm a female and I have those feelings, I know the urge but I've never had s3x. I know it's hard. But please try to keep away. Masturbating once in a while is even halal for you men, but for us it's haram. And u think women Don't have that libido and sex drive, you're wrong dude. U better get that thought off your mind. Even reading this is making me feel somehow.
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Amsah Dec 3, 11:24 AM

auzubillah kana daidai kowa mesa ko keso ku maida zina normal ne wai and I'm pretty sure uh are Muslim haba yayana zina fa ba abune mai kyauba Allah bayaso kasan me yake kawu azaban kabari 1.zina .cin naman mutum .rashin sarki mai kyau etc yayana just imagine uh alone in ur grave kana abunda Allah bayaso , kayi abunda Allah bayaso asane koma kace yana yafiya inbai yafebafa yazakayi inbazaka bashe shawara mai kyau ba please kayi sheru , this lust is temporary , not permanent so learn to control it , by lowering ur gaze, fast and get rid of any pornography in ur phone in sha Allah uh will succeed but wani yyi zina zakayi bayani a lahira alhakin akanka inbaza kafadi alheri ba kayi sheru inji manzon Allah , i pray kagane daidai 🤲
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Adams Mar 18, 12:17 AM

Subhanallahi! Innalillahi wa Innalillahi Rajiun 🥺 Wallahi kaji tsoran Allah. Ka tuna kuma zaka mutu ka koma ga Ubangiji, taya zakayi encouraging wani da aikata Zina? Kuma a wannan farfajiyan mutunci haka. Allah ya shiryeka. Subahanallahi.
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Adams Mar 18, 12:21 AM

A gaskiya kanada Raunin Imani, wallahi kayi gaggawan tuba kan lokaci ya kure maka. Ma yalfizu min qaulin illa ladayhi Rakibun wa atidun. Duk abunda kake fadi mala'iku suna rubutawa a matsayin sheda ranan qiyama. Allah ya shiryeka
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Sufyan Umar Dara Apr 14, 10:33 AM

understand what are you the only male adult here, what are you saying bro. Please 🙏🥺 you are a muslim even if you are commiting zina try as much as possible to repent and stop doing it. But please don't advice somebody which such words of ur's zina is haram, ❌ "Allah say's" in the holy Qur'an wala takarabuzzinah, don't go near it talk less of commiting it i beg. Duk irin sha'warka baka kaini ba, amma wlh Allah ya tsare ni ban taba aikata zina ba, so gsky ba dai bane abinda kace. Allah ya shiryar damu ya karemu daga aikata zina da duk wasu laifuka da suke jagorantar dan adam zuwa wutar jahannama.
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Anonymous #6 Apr 27, 01:32 AM

zakayi a wuce wurin u say? lallai guy, from ur comment I can probably guess u are into it coz wllh no good brother and believer will tell u do it awuce wurin, do u know that zina is a disease? the moment you start there's no going back to Allah can save you.....so think again and awuce wurin
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MMUSMAN Nov 25, 06:32 AM
u know is sin to do what Allah said we should not do.u said it Allah said we should not disobey him.brother that girl u think she is ur sex mate when u have it with her it will continue this will lead u astray
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