After gathering all the courage and energy to  open up and tell him that I'm in love with him 🥺 he end up asking weird questions like(can you stop working and be a full housewife? ).
please I need your advice, is this a sign of red flag?
                
            
                You are the one that approach him dole ya baki conditions kamar yadda mu mata muke bama maza condition in sun ce zasu aure mu                
            
                Kiyi istikara                
            
                Ra,ayinsa ne amma Mai aciki donka aure wacce ke aiki                
            
                what is the nature of the work
sister don't quit ur job plz.
if he loves u, definitely he'll support u to do work amma da kamun kai                
            
                bbu komai illa zata dogara d kanta ko bbu shi                
            
                that's not the reason kawaii b kaunar ta yke d gsk bh. Allah Sarki wasu n nma wani ta wasa d dman d Allah ya bshi                
            
                what's wrong with his question? that's the type of woman he wants, if you can't then stop crushing he told you his mind too.                
            
                itafa tace tana sonshi, kuma ra'ayin auren mace maras aiki ba laifi bane. shikuma yaga hakan takeson saboda wasu dalilai nasa.                
            
                shima ya fadi abin da ke ran shine kaman yadda kuma kuke fadan abin da kuka ga dama                
            
                It is, it definitely is
Everyone is entitled to their opinion, amma a zamanin nn that wulakanci is soo rampant, I don't think you should give up a career, like one comment said, kiyi istikhara, Allah will show you the way                
            
                Ki hakura da mutumin nan and face your life.... don't you ever quit your job                
            
                Ina yi ban fasa ba har yanzu!                
            
                I just work as non academic staff in a federal college 🙃                
            
                hmmm                
            
                thank you so much, to be candid I can't quite my job and i can't stop driving                
            
                so avoid mingle with bad colleagues. ayi addua Amma wlh don't quit ur job. my sister bul bul aka kaita with NCE amma yaqi nema mta aiki and even the responsibilities ba ko wanne ake msu bh.
so be careful wlh mu maza bma da tausayin mata most of us                
            
                hka                
            
                nagode da shawara                
            
                bbu komai sister. za'afi daraja ki if u are self-reliance, u can take of yourself and your children                
            
                no be so                
            
                u don enter 1 chance                
            
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