May 28, 10:44 AM

why is it hard for female doctors to find someone that supports their career in Arewa?

why is it so hard for a female Doctor to find someone that's trustworthy, loving & supportive? especially towards her career in Northern part of Nigeria?

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May 28, 11:25 AM
Slm,female doctor are not trustworthy,loving nd supportive because of our culture some parents are seeing that, female doctor are less important than men doctor the are seeing that female doctor can't be trustworthy,loving nd supportive, wasu iyaye da mutane kawai the take female as house wife she can't do anything expect cooking nd taking care of children e.t.c. sometimes if you go to some hospital people don't trust female doctor because of the trustworthy,loving nd supportive
May 28, 04:42 PM
I think it all depends on who she's dealing with. I have known a couple of female doctors who most of them are even consultants n doing well in their careers. Through, just like you said.. Its actually kinda difficult. Majority of working class ladies value their jobs more than d marriage itself which tends to cause issues a gidan auren su... Like having nonchalant attitude about cooking, lack of respect ga mijin, rashin kula da miji, etc. My take though. I hope with time, mazaje zasu dinga supporting matan su suyi ayki especially Doctors. I have this long term dream of marrying a medical Dr.. Though, people use to say it's very challenging
May 28, 07:23 PM
wether female doctor, “lawyer or any form of jobs… most female in such categories prioritize their jobs, usually challenge a man, especially after marriage… it is not a bad thing to work but you have to maintain your position as a wife first. Allah yasa mu dace
May 28, 08:33 PM
are you a female Dr?
May 29, 12:30 AM
me I do o
May 29, 01:25 AM
Anonymous #1 May 28, 04:42 PM
I think it all depends on who she's dealing with. I have known a couple of female doctors who most of them are even consultants n doing well in their careers. Through, just like you said.. Its actual[...] I think it all depends on who she's dealing with. I have known a couple of female doctors who most of them are even consultants n doing well in their careers. Through, just like you said.. Its actually kinda difficult. Majority of working class ladies value their jobs more than d marriage itself which tends to cause issues a gidan auren su... Like having nonchalant attitude about cooking, lack of respect ga mijin, rashin kula da miji, etc. My take though. I hope with time, mazaje zasu dinga supporting matan su suyi ayki especially Doctors. I have this long term dream of marrying a medical Dr.. Though, people use to say it's very challenging
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Agreed! 💯
May 29, 11:48 AM
Fulanifatima May 28, 11:25 AM
Slm,female doctor are not trustworthy,loving nd supportive because of our culture some parents are seeing that, female doctor are less important than men doctor the are seeing that female doctor can'[...] Slm,female doctor are not trustworthy,loving nd supportive because of our culture some parents are seeing that, female doctor are less important than men doctor the are seeing that female doctor can't be trustworthy,loving nd supportive, wasu iyaye da mutane kawai the take female as house wife she can't do anything expect cooking nd taking care of children e.t.c. sometimes if you go to some hospital people don't trust female doctor because of the trustworthy,loving nd supportive
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I am not saying you are completely wrong, but you you are not all right either.
May 29, 11:52 AM
Abubakar Usman May 28, 07:23 PM
wether female doctor, “lawyer or any form of jobs… most female in such categories prioritize their jobs, usually challenge a man, especially after marriage… it is not a bad thing to work but you[...] wether female doctor, “lawyer or any form of jobs… most female in such categories prioritize their jobs, usually challenge a man, especially after marriage… it is not a bad thing to work but you have to maintain your position as a wife first. Allah yasa mu dace
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generally when a lady's job is too demanding, most men won't patronise her doing that, because they will want her to be home when needed. if I may talk for my myself, all my dream was to find a lady that works in the health sector, and Alhamdulillah I got a lovely one🥰. female nurses and doctors where go to option when I was looking for a woman. it's the job I want my daughters too to do if Allah extends our live to see and have them, and if they want to do it of course.
May 29, 11:56 AM
Hasynoh May 29, 11:52 AM
generally when a lady's job is too demanding, most men won't patronise her doing that, because they will want her to be home when needed. if I may talk for my myself, all my dream was to find a lady t[...] generally when a lady's job is too demanding, most men won't patronise her doing that, because they will want her to be home when needed. if I may talk for my myself, all my dream was to find a lady that works in the health sector, and Alhamdulillah I got a lovely one🥰. female nurses and doctors where go to option when I was looking for a woman. it's the job I want my daughters too to do if Allah extends our live to see and have them, and if they want to do it of course.
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I'm glad you have found that brother 😊
May 29, 06:21 PM
It depends. Some men prefer a stay-@home wife due to various reasons. Some don't want their wives to interact with men at her work, wasu kuma feel insecure. Generally, society is against doctors but the truth is that they are good people and they make good spouses. Averagely, most doctors are Islamically sound. Dear poster you can consider dating your colleague 😊
Jun 10, 06:42 PM
but I'm ready to
Jun 12, 11:05 AM
MUHAMMED AUNA SULE Jun 10, 06:42 PM

but I'm ready to

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it's not just by saying it, bro. it's a matter of lyf tym sacrifice
Jun 17, 01:22 AM
Anonymous #1 May 28, 04:42 PM
I think it all depends on who she's dealing with. I have known a couple of female doctors who most of them are even consultants n doing well in their careers. Through, just like you said.. Its actual[...] I think it all depends on who she's dealing with. I have known a couple of female doctors who most of them are even consultants n doing well in their careers. Through, just like you said.. Its actually kinda difficult. Majority of working class ladies value their jobs more than d marriage itself which tends to cause issues a gidan auren su... Like having nonchalant attitude about cooking, lack of respect ga mijin, rashin kula da miji, etc. My take though. I hope with time, mazaje zasu dinga supporting matan su suyi ayki especially Doctors. I have this long term dream of marrying a medical Dr.. Though, people use to say it's very challenging
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darling.......slide to my dm.......I'm not challenging
Jun 17, 11:41 AM
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ok.....but b4 then can I know u....a little
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