So i hqve 2 ladies am dating and having plans on settling before the year runs out inshallah. The issue is that i know know which one to settle with. Lady A is from a very well to do family, well educated employed and takes care of herself. Lady B from an average family, not as educated as A, not employed (stays with parent). We vibe more with lady A and i feel i love her more than lady B. My problem is the issue of class of both ladies  in question. Myself am from an average family, well educated, employed with an NGO and i make 7 figures. I feel i will be better with since am assuming we are in same class so we wont have ome family looking down on the other or one family thinking you are marrying into their family because of there wealth and all. If not for the above, mo doubt lady A would have been the preferred choice. Again, some members of my family are not comfortable with lady A cause they assume that the family sue to their wealth might start influencing /controlling thw marriage with time. Your advice are needed. Thanks
                
            
                Gaskia sometimes masu kudi nada raini. Unless they are knowledgeable of the deen. And that "A" might not settle for less than the lifestyle she's use to from her parent's house                
            
                malam just go for the one that's closer to the Deen and you can control.                
            
                Do istikharah and pray Tahajud. 
May Allah help you choose the best                
            
                pls menene 7figures ne                
            
                millions                
            
                just go with the one you're comfortable with                
            
                wow tnk u                
            
                Do you mean 7 figures monthly or annually ?                
            
                shikenan fa 🙌🏾🙌🏾                
            
                No need to complicate things ai. idan anfi qarfina a place A sai naje place B.. simple                
            
                I like this your question 😂                
            
                lol                
            
                Brother, marry lady A. You won't regret it Insha Allah,  after all you are the man of the house.                
            
                Don't forget that the one from average family maybe the one with high expectations                
            
                just marry the two of them
ka fada musu su biyu zaka aura
ka hada mu zama dukan ku
wacce tace bata yarda ba sae k qyale ta ka auri dayar
in kuma duk sun yarda shknn
Allah y baku zaman lpy                
            
                Amfanin gida biyu knan 😂😂😂                
            
                haba dai😂                
            
                eh mana😂
kaga shknn ba wacce zata ce ka yaudareta in kai hakan
amma in ka auri daya  daga ciki dayar zata ga ka yaudareta ka bata mata lokaci                
            
                Ga lady C kawai 😂😂😂kyalesu ka km lady C😜                
            
                lol, wacece lady C kuma?                
            
                Here i am😂😂                
            
                lol, dm                
            
                Lady C ta samu shiga. 7 figures is working 😄                
            
                Am new here how can i ?                
            
                what if he tries that with the hope one of them pulls out so he'll take the more patient one, but then they both agree 😂                
            
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