May 10, 12:02 AM

Whom among these two ladies i'm dating should i choose for Marriage?

So i hqve 2 ladies am dating and having plans on settling before the year runs out inshallah. The issue is that i know know which one to settle with. Lady A is from a very well to do family, well educated employed and takes care of herself. Lady B from an average family, not as educated as A, not employed (stays with parent). We vibe more with lady A and i feel i love her more than lady B. My problem is the issue of class of both ladies in question. Myself am from an average family, well educated, employed with an NGO and i make 7 figures. I feel i will be better with since am assuming we are in same class so we wont have ome family looking down on the other or one family thinking you are marrying into their family because of there wealth and all. If not for the above, mo doubt lady A would have been the preferred choice. Again, some members of my family are not comfortable with lady A cause they assume that the family sue to their wealth might start influencing /controlling thw marriage with time. Your advice are needed. Thanks

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May 10, 02:13 AM
Gaskia sometimes masu kudi nada raini. Unless they are knowledgeable of the deen. And that "A" might not settle for less than the lifestyle she's use to from her parent's house
May 10, 06:08 AM
malam just go for the one that's closer to the Deen and you can control.
May 10, 06:21 AM
Do istikharah and pray Tahajud. May Allah help you choose the best
May 10, 08:56 AM
pls menene 7figures ne
May 10, 08:58 AM
Anonymous #4 May 10, 08:56 AM

pls menene 7figures ne

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millions
May 10, 08:59 AM
just go with the one you're comfortable with
May 10, 08:59 AM
Anonymous #5 May 10, 08:58 AM

millions

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wow tnk u
May 10, 09:49 AM
Do you mean 7 figures monthly or annually ?
May 10, 12:52 PM
MuhammadS May 10, 08:59 AM

just go with the one you're comfortable with

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shikenan fa ๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿพ๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿพ
May 10, 07:15 PM
Maryam Muhammad33 May 10, 12:52 PM

shikenan fa ๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿพ๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿพ

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No need to complicate things ai. idan anfi qarfina a place A sai naje place B.. simple
May 10, 07:19 PM
Anonymous #6 May 10, 09:49 AM

Do you mean 7 figures monthly or annually ?

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I like this your question ๐Ÿ˜‚
May 10, 07:20 PM
Sally May 10, 07:19 PM

I like this your question ๐Ÿ˜‚

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lol
May 10, 07:29 PM
Brother, marry lady A. You won't regret it Insha Allah, after all you are the man of the house.
May 10, 07:31 PM
Don't forget that the one from average family maybe the one with high expectations
May 10, 07:47 PM
just marry the two of them ka fada musu su biyu zaka aura ka hada mu zama dukan ku wacce tace bata yarda ba sae k qyale ta ka auri dayar in kuma duk sun yarda shknn Allah y baku zaman lpy
May 10, 08:23 PM
MuhammadS May 10, 07:15 PM

No need to complicate things ai. idan anfi qarfina a place A sai naje place B.. simple

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Amfanin gida biyu knan ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚
May 10, 08:29 PM
Baby girl May 10, 07:47 PM

just marry the two of them ka fada musu su biyu zaka aura ka hada mu zama dukan ku wacce tace bata yarda ba sae k qyale ta ka auri dayar in kuma duk sun yarda shknn Allah y baku zaman lpy

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haba dai๐Ÿ˜‚
May 10, 08:38 PM
Anonymous May 10, 08:29 PM

haba dai๐Ÿ˜‚

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eh mana๐Ÿ˜‚ kaga shknn ba wacce zata ce ka yaudareta in kai hakan amma in ka auri daya daga ciki dayar zata ga ka yaudareta ka bata mata lokaci
May 10, 08:53 PM
Ga lady C kawai ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚kyalesu ka km lady C๐Ÿ˜œ
May 10, 08:54 PM
Zainab bashir May 10, 08:53 PM

Ga lady C kawai ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚kyalesu ka km lady C๐Ÿ˜œ

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lol, wacece lady C kuma?
May 10, 09:28 PM
Anonymous May 10, 08:54 PM

lol, wacece lady C kuma?

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Here i am๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚
May 10, 09:41 PM
Zainab bashir May 10, 09:28 PM

Here i am๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚

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lol, dm
May 10, 09:59 PM
Anonymous May 10, 09:41 PM

lol, dm

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Lady C ta samu shiga. 7 figures is working ๐Ÿ˜„
May 10, 10:43 PM
Anonymous May 10, 09:41 PM

lol, dm

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Am new here how can i ?
May 11, 01:15 PM
Baby girl May 10, 07:47 PM

just marry the two of them ka fada musu su biyu zaka aura ka hada mu zama dukan ku wacce tace bata yarda ba sae k qyale ta ka auri dayar in kuma duk sun yarda shknn Allah y baku zaman lpy

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what if he tries that with the hope one of them pulls out so he'll take the more patient one, but then they both agree ๐Ÿ˜‚
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