Mar 4, 11:26 PM

Will I ever find Love?

I am not a bad gal, but why do I feel like I am incomplete, something doesn't feel right. I have this crazy fantasy of the kind of spouse I need or want, I have always wanted a romantic, caring, hot, dark and amazing spouse. I have been to weddings and events and see such people, but they never ask me out(am I a potato?), for crying out right, I am beautiful(not praising myself but I know I am), I have had relationships in the past where I thought I will get married to them but it never worked out, Men are either selfish or deceivers. I am heart broken and struggling to live and find peace within myself.

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Mar 4, 11:47 PM
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Mar 5, 02:07 AM
Asslm. the moment you have negativity on men by saying all men are selfish or deceivers then how will you find love? kindly correct your statement on that. secondly stop fantasizing and be realistic about the kind of spouse you want otherwise you will spend ages searching…. thirdly, to find peace within yourself you have to realize that you are a important as the piece of potato to some people who like to eat them and also, you are less important as piece of potato 🥔 to people who don’t like to eat them… may Allah grant you heart desires and give you peace within yourself. Ameen 🙏
Mar 5, 04:33 AM
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😂
Mar 5, 04:34 AM
dark not chocolate
Mar 5, 08:07 AM
just put ur hope in Allah aure lokacin ne if is ur time even though u are not in a relationship u most get married and pray for a pious spouse may Allah is miji nagari
Mar 5, 08:32 AM
Abubakar Usman Mar 5, 02:07 AM
Asslm. the moment you have negativity on men by saying all men are selfish or deceivers then how will you find love? kindly correct your statement on that. secondly stop fantasizing and be realistic a[...] Asslm. the moment you have negativity on men by saying all men are selfish or deceivers then how will you find love? kindly correct your statement on that. secondly stop fantasizing and be realistic about the kind of spouse you want otherwise you will spend ages searching…. thirdly, to find peace within yourself you have to realize that you are a important as the piece of potato to some people who like to eat them and also, you are less important as piece of potato 🥔 to people who don’t like to eat them… may Allah grant you heart desires and give you peace within yourself. Ameen 🙏
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Ameen Thank You
Mar 5, 11:10 AM
naam banji ba
Mar 5, 02:18 PM
Abubakar Usman Mar 5, 02:07 AM
Asslm. the moment you have negativity on men by saying all men are selfish or deceivers then how will you find love? kindly correct your statement on that. secondly stop fantasizing and be realistic a[...] Asslm. the moment you have negativity on men by saying all men are selfish or deceivers then how will you find love? kindly correct your statement on that. secondly stop fantasizing and be realistic about the kind of spouse you want otherwise you will spend ages searching…. thirdly, to find peace within yourself you have to realize that you are a important as the piece of potato to some people who like to eat them and also, you are less important as piece of potato 🥔 to people who don’t like to eat them… may Allah grant you heart desires and give you peace within yourself. Ameen 🙏
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Ameeen
Mar 5, 05:02 PM
LMAO......how many men did you reject???
Mar 5, 07:16 PM
Jibril saeed Mar 5, 05:02 PM

LMAO......how many men did you reject???

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dnt be rude please, u dnt knw wat shr is going through. orr has she rejected u b4?🤌
Mar 5, 08:11 PM
Nemmss Mar 5, 07:16 PM

dnt be rude please, u dnt knw wat shr is going through. orr has she rejected u b4?🤌

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i wonder how some people think , someone is opening up a personal issue and they comment garbage.
Mar 5, 08:41 PM
I feel your pain sister, karki damu komai lokaci ne
Mar 6, 04:44 AM
Nemmss Mar 5, 07:16 PM

dnt be rude please, u dnt knw wat shr is going through. orr has she rejected u b4?🤌

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no worries, I have faced more rudeness than this so I am used to it.
Mar 6, 04:44 AM
Anonymous #1 Mar 5, 08:41 PM

I feel your pain sister, karki damu komai lokaci ne

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thank you, Jzk
Mar 6, 05:43 AM
Allah yayi mana jagoranci ya mana zabi na gari.
Mar 6, 07:39 AM
the best is yet to come
Mar 6, 08:58 AM
Saadiya idris umar Mar 6, 05:43 AM

Allah yayi mana jagoranci ya mana zabi na gari.

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ameen ya rabb
Mar 6, 08:58 AM
MuhammadS Mar 6, 07:39 AM

the best is yet to come

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agreed
Mar 6, 03:10 PM
Nemmss Mar 5, 07:16 PM

dnt be rude please, u dnt knw wat shr is going through. orr has she rejected u b4?🤌

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stay aside please, I know what am doing.
Mar 6, 11:43 PM
Jibril saeed Mar 6, 03:10 PM

stay aside please, I know what am doing.

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abokina baka da gaskiya bai kamata kayi comment din nan bah
Mar 8, 03:32 PM
Jibril saeed Mar 6, 03:10 PM

stay aside please, I know what am doing.

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i dnt need to waste my time on u, so carry ur wahala nd move.
Mar 8, 06:42 PM
Nemmss Mar 8, 03:32 PM

i dnt need to waste my time on u, so carry ur wahala nd move.

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na you get wahalah, mumundi.🏋️
Mar 9, 11:43 PM
well first off,i think you should delete every form of negativity from your life. its not by how soon you get into a relationship but by how well. how successful the outcome is. so dont rush. its very necessary to be patient, you re very special i can vouch on that and i want you to always have that in mind. dont feel that you re unlucky, or unlovable. my prayer for you is that you find an awesome loving guy who will give you nothing short of that princess treatment. Besides i am also single too lol
Mar 16, 10:23 PM
Khaleefa Mar 9, 11:43 PM
well first off,i think you should delete every form of negativity from your life. its not by how soon you get into a relationship but by how well. how successful the outcome is. so dont rush. it[...] well first off,i think you should delete every form of negativity from your life. its not by how soon you get into a relationship but by how well. how successful the outcome is. so dont rush. its very necessary to be patient, you re very special i can vouch on that and i want you to always have that in mind. dont feel that you re unlucky, or unlovable. my prayer for you is that you find an awesome loving guy who will give you nothing short of that princess treatment. Besides i am also single too lol
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Ameen jzk
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