Stop being in a hurry to grant financial aid to ladies you just met, especially those you approached.
Be intentional about the talking stage and maintain the status quo otherwise it might become a billing stage.
If you truly want to build something natural or solid with her, then avoid any situation that may compel you to grant financial aid.
Nigerian ladies undervalue financial aids during the first two or three weeks of meeting each other,
Because many of them have this feeble preconceived mindset that boys will always try to impress or pretend to care.
Even if your intentions are pure, she has got her doubts in play and trust me, she’s not that moved.
The “Thanks!” You get afterwards is just a formality, deep down she still feels- Oh well, boys will always be boys!
To put this into perspective, I mean girls who casually, stylishly puts you in that position like : I’m hungry. I’m not fine. I’m broke.
That is tactical blackmail, It’s all manipulation. Do not fall for it and do not try to prove how much you care by lending financial aid.
She will most likely turn you into a simp and maga because the tactical blackmail and billing will never stop.
She’s always going to be hungry. Always going to crave ice cream. Always going to need that urgent 2k very urgently…
I mean you could ask why she hadn’t returned your calls or message and the next thing is - I am out of data/airtime.
She turns everything into an opportunity to bill you because you’ve shown her you have money to give and that will affect how she sees you.
Many girls don’t see any reason to go into a relationship with you if already gain financial benefit benefit from you.
And the most annoying part is the fact that they don’t appreciate your kindness, In their small minds they feel you can’t resist or say no to them.
They believe you are always quick to come through for them because you want something from them.
Granting financial support to a girl you like but just met is risky because it can quickly change the direction of your relationship with her.
Avoid it!!! Talking stages are meant for conversations not semi blackmails and tactical billing.
Never try to prove anything with money because whatever you start with money, will definitely require money to finish up.
Uhmmm True talk jazakallah Alhamdulillah da irin zuciyan da Allah yayi mun
Wlh Hakane never try to prove anything with money
whatever you start with money will definitely require money to finish up
Jama'a ina da tambaya to wai mu ko de bamu da Rabon cin kudin samari ne sai de muyi ta ganin uget 2k ne aa airtime ne ice cream ne Abubuwa de kala kala suna faruwa muko shiruuu kake ji but ba komai Alhamdulillah tunda mun tsare mutun cin mu
Yass
hmm..ni saurayina yakan tambayeni inada da data koh airtime..Amma Bana iyabashi amsa na gaskiya..saidai incemai eh inadashi alhalin wlhi banidashi....inajin kunya in amsamai karyaga kaman inada kwadayi..Dan Allah kunaganin irinka fadamai gskiyne kohkoh inyi shiru kawai
saurayina dakanshi yacemin inemi biz idan nasamu infadamai wani it nakeso...toh nafadamai..sai bece komaiba..sai bayan kwana 2 yace idan fa Banda jali ingayamai..nayi shiru harynx banfada Mai komaiba.. Dan Allah kuban shawara..Zan iya kiranshi ingayamai banidashi..banaso ne yaga kaman inada kwadayi..don bantaba tamabayansa koh katiba
Hmm Wannan gaskiya ne most of this rich so call late comers haka suke at the end most of the wedding no dey last
ba waye wa ace kana tare da mace bata cin kudin ka wai kai comrade Mata sai da kudi alh muma anawa kannan mu kaga dole muna muyi
idan kanada shi ta tambaya bata alh rayuwa sai an temaki juna
no ai akwae wanda suka San ya dace mah koh bk tambaya ba sbd sunsan y kamata 😹😹😹
eh haka ne amma ace kana tare da mace bata morarka ai baiyi bah sai da kyautatawa
tabbas hkn but ni bazan iya tambayar saurayi ba but ai sadakin so kyauta koh data ne but sai wasu sufi 2years koh biyar din mutum
tnks bro Allah y biyaka
If you lyk go nd prove love with money you go soon com nd tell us hw she break ur heart
wise thought thank you dude
not all girls but just say you don't talk on behalf of other girls
rashin waye wa ne kafi 2years da budurwa baka Mata komai wai kai comrade aikin banza
Wlh fah ai sai a hankali
well, is true but trust me some men I don't just understand them😞you will be together with a guy for years,but he will never ask you if you need anything,wani Yana jira ka tambaya,ka tambaya Kuma ace ka cika roko,but seriously at least ko bakomai ko ba kudi ba ka rinka kyauta am not saying you should be giving anyhow but at least idan ka kyautata ai ba laifi bane,muma mata yakamata murinka kyautata masu.but majority dinmu Sai dai amana mu bamu tunanin muyi.Allah dai ya taimaka...
rashin waye wa ne kawai
ai idan mutum yn mk baka kyashin yi mai
wlh kam wasu jira suke k ce su bk
😅😅😅
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