wallahi I'd love to marry an hausa man some but scared

Allah massani.

Cos we do legal marriage not like other zone that you can be comfortably staying together with a woman out of wedlock, so when there is any problem everyone will go his way, I am living in the west for 10 years and am here as a government official I know how cases are happening here. So forget about North separation is not peculiar to North, is only that north do marriage legally and when there is issues the separation will be more painful

Not just in Arewa. It's a pandemic nowadays. But l think mainly because of diverse opinions

Which Tribe are you please

Divorce is global and it's main cause is insincerity from both sides. We think we are educated and wise enough to neglect the commandments of our creator. How can you hold the hands of a person you are not yet married to and expect to have a peaceful life after marriage? It's prohibited to touch anyone that you're not legally entitled or related to even your fiance until the wedding is tied , anytime before that be it in seconds is HARAM.

it’s bcos tun daga relationship har zuwa aure mun kaucema abun da uban giji da manzon mu suka umarce mu, so dole muga ba daidai ba wlh, kuma wayonmu ko dubarar mu bata fidda mu Allah dai ya mana mafita ta alkhairi

ni atunanina sbd yakasance auren hausawa baida tsada kamar na yare wlh naga Wanda yace badan y kashe kudi vah kafin y auri matarshi da yarabu da ita so maxan hausawa suna samun mata dasauki I think that's why

mostly wlh auren sha,awa akeyi shiyasa ba Dan Allah bane kuma wasu dun abun hannu as soon as they found negative of what their expecting problem will start

nupe

You don't have problem, just marry the right person and try to follow the sunnah in marriage, avoid all the unnecessary bidiah that will lead to curse your marriage.